Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I have to get something off my chest ...

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Last summer in Toronto I met two HOT vietnamese girls that seemed interested. I assumed they were twins and younger then me so I ignored them. I was so over critical that within a week - I barely talked to them. I even admitted that "If I was their age, I'd be all over them."

Problem with me is that I don't like younger girls. Infact, if she's just one year younger - she's too young for me, and I don't run after azn girls.

Back to the future, I talked to people from Philly and the girls were mentionned ... what did I learn? They are NOT twins. One of em is either my age or even better - older then me. AAAAAAARGH!!! :mad:

The moral of the story is - NEVER ASSUME (except that they don't have a boyfriend until he is mentionned). If I approached them instead of making up excuses - I could of developed a fling or even a LTR (not likely but whatever).

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKE

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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124 views with only one reply???

anyways ... thanks.

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I use to do the same thing Dee-Zy, but now i don't care anymore. I just talk to any good looking lady now. I ran into a lot of girls that I thought were too young to ****, but it turned out that they were legal :p Worry about the age later.

Once i went up to this 30 year old... ROFL I'm 21 btw. I thought she was around my age, but oh well :p It cant hurt to talk to them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Heck, Im in the same boat as you guys. Fortunately, I was at the other end of the spectrum. I was at a bus station and I see this SEXY philipino chick standing there. I thought she was like 21 or something but when I chatted her up I discovered she was 16 (Im 16 also). I was SO glad that I chatted her up. I got her number, BTW.
 
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hmmmm ...

I can't believe I forgot about this...

Assuming is powerfull weapon. It's also a double-edged sword.

As you assume, you become

This works not only with women, but also in life. I've been taught this a few weeks ago in my training. My supervisor told us:

If you don't believe in what you are selling, how can you expect yourself to sell it?



I assumed they weren't good enough for me ... I just saved myself a few weeks of sex that summer.
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