"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have to get something off my chest ...

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Last summer in Toronto I met two HOT vietnamese girls that seemed interested. I assumed they were twins and younger then me so I ignored them. I was so over critical that within a week - I barely talked to them. I even admitted that "If I was their age, I'd be all over them."

Problem with me is that I don't like younger girls. Infact, if she's just one year younger - she's too young for me, and I don't run after azn girls.

Back to the future, I talked to people from Philly and the girls were mentionned ... what did I learn? They are NOT twins. One of em is either my age or even better - older then me. AAAAAAARGH!!! :mad:

The moral of the story is - NEVER ASSUME (except that they don't have a boyfriend until he is mentionned). If I approached them instead of making up excuses - I could of developed a fling or even a LTR (not likely but whatever).

LEARN FROM MY MISTAKE

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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124 views with only one reply???

anyways ... thanks.

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I use to do the same thing Dee-Zy, but now i don't care anymore. I just talk to any good looking lady now. I ran into a lot of girls that I thought were too young to ****, but it turned out that they were legal :p Worry about the age later.

Once i went up to this 30 year old... ROFL I'm 21 btw. I thought she was around my age, but oh well :p It cant hurt to talk to them
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heck, Im in the same boat as you guys. Fortunately, I was at the other end of the spectrum. I was at a bus station and I see this SEXY philipino chick standing there. I thought she was like 21 or something but when I chatted her up I discovered she was 16 (Im 16 also). I was SO glad that I chatted her up. I got her number, BTW.
 
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hmmmm ...

I can't believe I forgot about this...

Assuming is powerfull weapon. It's also a double-edged sword.

As you assume, you become

This works not only with women, but also in life. I've been taught this a few weeks ago in my training. My supervisor told us:

If you don't believe in what you are selling, how can you expect yourself to sell it?



I assumed they weren't good enough for me ... I just saved myself a few weeks of sex that summer.
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