SeymourCake
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Is it best for me NOT to smile?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have fvcked up teeth
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I had severely f*cked up teeth 3.5 years ago. I was so ashamed that I had crooked teeth, that I took the step and went to see an orthodontist. My teeth were so f*cked up that I was at risk of loosing my front teeth if left untreated. So I got braces and about a year ago I had surgery to fix the problems with my jaw alignment.
To be honest, I am so glad I did it. In 3 weeks my braces come out, and I will have perfect teeth. I no longer feel ashamed for how my teeth look.
If you feel shame for the way your teeth look, go see an orthodontist. Check if you're insured for orthodontist treatment and see what they can do(and if you think it's worth paying yourself if your insurance doesn't cover it). Don't believe what other people say: Braces will *NOT* influence your game. I thought initially that people would look really weird at me for having braces at my age, but it turns out, noone cares. And when it comes to girls, a lot of them confessed they were curious about making out with a guy with braces.
To be honest, I am so glad I did it. In 3 weeks my braces come out, and I will have perfect teeth. I no longer feel ashamed for how my teeth look.
If you feel shame for the way your teeth look, go see an orthodontist. Check if you're insured for orthodontist treatment and see what they can do(and if you think it's worth paying yourself if your insurance doesn't cover it). Don't believe what other people say: Braces will *NOT* influence your game. I thought initially that people would look really weird at me for having braces at my age, but it turns out, noone cares. And when it comes to girls, a lot of them confessed they were curious about making out with a guy with braces.
No bad teeth can make a smile look bad, really! There's no such ugly creature that looks bad when it smiles. I'd like to point out smth else though: Do you have to make that question on sosuave? I mean most of the guys here are 25yo virgins, nerdym geeky, narcisoids, women-haters and probably deep down f...... faggots. So why the **** would you need to ask anyone here anything?
Go and flash your smile to every single female being that provokes it, and have fun with it. I had my front teeth removed when i dated best girlfriend i ever had [10 outta 10].
Go and flash your smile to every single female being that provokes it, and have fun with it. I had my front teeth removed when i dated best girlfriend i ever had [10 outta 10].
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SeymourCake
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Isn't it kind of weird for a 20 year old guy to get braces? I mean you would see them on younger people.
kingsam
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a new female fetish ... braces!SandHawk said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Nope, I was 23 when I got my braces, and I'm currently 27. Nothing weird about it.SeymourCake said:
I don't think that's newkingsam said:
. Braces have been a fetish for a long time, even amongst males.
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Goddammit OP, smile without showing your teeth or get that sh*t fixed!