War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Indeed.trojanman88 said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I have a problem kissing girls.
- Thread starter Vice
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skepsis
Don Juan
No, you’re just being a pansy. Take baby steps.Vice said:
Relax, put your forehead against hers, talk for a few seconds, Eskimo kiss, and close the deal.
That's how I got over my ‘fear of success’ at least.
Gustav Yavo
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Whoever said baby steps has the right idea. Start with some serious eye contact, get closer do some eskimo kisses (basically rubbing your noses together), start pecking, then go in for the kill (keeps your hands moving while you two are kissing) Just go step by step and you will be fine.
Vice said:
Your ego is stopping you. You can't handle the rejection and would rather leave things the way they are than risk the humilation.
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With no guile, and no game, there's no girl
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jazzmaster2
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Actually, don't force it at all. It may sound cliche but it will naturally come. Plus it's so much better if you don't try to expect or force it. Trust me.Vice said:
trojanman88
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No, its probably just cuz you haven't done it before, its like cold water man. You just jump in
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.
Get some cool clothes. Go to a dance party and locate a hor. Grind on the hor, and glide your face over her hair, kiss her on the neck, etc. Then eventually work your way toward the lips (either with the same girl or with someone else).
Make it a gradual thing.
Make it a gradual thing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
DUDE! I seemed to have gotten worse too. Hahaha, oh man, I thought I was the only one. It's not like you don't know what you're doing, you just don't care so much after the umpteenth time. Maybe I'm just lazy.