War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Indeed.trojanman88 said:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I have a problem kissing girls.
- Thread starter Vice
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skepsis
Don Juan
No, you’re just being a pansy. Take baby steps.Vice said:
Relax, put your forehead against hers, talk for a few seconds, Eskimo kiss, and close the deal.
That's how I got over my ‘fear of success’ at least.
Gustav Yavo
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Whoever said baby steps has the right idea. Start with some serious eye contact, get closer do some eskimo kisses (basically rubbing your noses together), start pecking, then go in for the kill (keeps your hands moving while you two are kissing) Just go step by step and you will be fine.
Vice said:
Your ego is stopping you. You can't handle the rejection and would rather leave things the way they are than risk the humilation.
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With no guile, and no game, there's no girl
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
jazzmaster2
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Actually, don't force it at all. It may sound cliche but it will naturally come. Plus it's so much better if you don't try to expect or force it. Trust me.Vice said:
trojanman88
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No, its probably just cuz you haven't done it before, its like cold water man. You just jump in
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.
Get some cool clothes. Go to a dance party and locate a hor. Grind on the hor, and glide your face over her hair, kiss her on the neck, etc. Then eventually work your way toward the lips (either with the same girl or with someone else).
Make it a gradual thing.
Make it a gradual thing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
DUDE! I seemed to have gotten worse too. Hahaha, oh man, I thought I was the only one. It's not like you don't know what you're doing, you just don't care so much after the umpteenth time. Maybe I'm just lazy.