War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Indeed.trojanman88 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have a problem kissing girls.
- Thread starter Vice
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Skepsis
Don Juan
No, you’re just being a pansy. Take baby steps.Vice said:
Relax, put your forehead against hers, talk for a few seconds, Eskimo kiss, and close the deal.
That's how I got over my ‘fear of success’ at least.
Gustav Yavo
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Whoever said baby steps has the right idea. Start with some serious eye contact, get closer do some eskimo kisses (basically rubbing your noses together), start pecking, then go in for the kill (keeps your hands moving while you two are kissing) Just go step by step and you will be fine.
Vice said:
Your ego is stopping you. You can't handle the rejection and would rather leave things the way they are than risk the humilation.
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With no guile, and no game, there's no girl
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jazzmaster2
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Actually, don't force it at all. It may sound cliche but it will naturally come. Plus it's so much better if you don't try to expect or force it. Trust me.Vice said:
trojanman88
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No, its probably just cuz you haven't done it before, its like cold water man. You just jump in
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
My first kiss came pretty late but I just went ahead and did it. Turned into a full out make-out session. And suprisingly, I was pretty good at it for a first time. I got more aggressive/ sloppy as the years went on.
Get some cool clothes. Go to a dance party and locate a hor. Grind on the hor, and glide your face over her hair, kiss her on the neck, etc. Then eventually work your way toward the lips (either with the same girl or with someone else).
Make it a gradual thing.
Make it a gradual thing.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
DUDE! I seemed to have gotten worse too. Hahaha, oh man, I thought I was the only one. It's not like you don't know what you're doing, you just don't care so much after the umpteenth time. Maybe I'm just lazy.