I have a porn addiction

[deathrock]

I have a porn addiction, and i think it's going to get in my way to becoming a Don Juan. I need help stopping this addiction. Help please.

 

[joekerr31]

we need more details. how much porn do you watch and what kind of porn?

 

[deathrock]

I watch everything except homosexual and anything focusing on the guy. I watch it everyday more then twice, and i you know when i watch, twice a day, everyday. I think it's pretty bad i need help

 

[Phyzzle]

Check out whippedass.com. That might be up your alley.

Wait, you wanna quit. Well, the best way to quit mild addictions like caffiene or porn (as opposed to crack or cigarettes) is to go incrementally. Just quit for a day, then quit for two, then for 3. That way, you don't have to swear it off all at once. Or ever, really.

 

[amoka]

Get a hobby. Try having friends over your place--thus if you live by yourselve. Try not to say in your house all day--go somewhere.

Good luck

 

[MacAvoy]

Take up hookers. It will satisfy your "other" dreams which is the reason why your watching porn. The downside is in the end ... porn is the cheaper/safer bet.

 

[deathrock]

Yes i want to stop. I'm afraid of the side effects, and i read up on porn addictions and i think it might be the reason i am like this, and i'm not proud of who i am.

 

[Doggystyle]

Do you crack off to porn? That can create the addiction, your linking those good feeling orgasm to porn on your computer, hence the addiction.

I don't know how people have the time for a porn addiction, what a waste of time! think off all you could be doing in that time. Also read the chapter on sex transmutation from think and grow rich, you can find it on line in loads of places if you search for it.

 

[spider_007]

Take up hookers.

THAT IS A HORIBLE IDEA. Your just replacing one habit with another.
And that other habit is HELL OF A LOT MORE EXPENCIVE (bolive me, im trying to kick it.)

 

[deathrock]

I'm afraid of failure, and i have a bad addiction i need help

 

[Mustache]

Friend

I am married for 20 years and porn addict all my marriage time

For me the pleasure of porn addict is a different pleasure of sex
in the marriage. both have different tastes


Mustache

 

[Bible_Belt]

I watch it everyday more then twice, and i you know when i watch, twice a day, everyday. I think it's pretty bad i need help

I think if you called the radio show 'Loveline' and told them that, they'd be like "chill out; you're only normal." Unfortunately for the current state of 'normal,' they would probably be right. If you really had an addiction, it would be more like all day every day. But just throw your collection away and get a real girl - not a hooker, but compromise a little if you have to. The real thing is much better.

 

[azanon]

Don't feed the trolls guys.

 

[Mustache]

... But just throw your collection away and get a real girl - not a hooker, but compromise a little if you have to.

I also think that he has to get a girl. Yet, it is not guaranteed that he will quit
porn. In my point of view a don't see it as problem


Mustache

 

[joekerr31]

if you're in to midget porn then you have a problem.

are you in to midget porn yet?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

But just throw your collection away and get a real girl - not a hooker, but compromise a little if you have to. The real thing is much better.

I can tell you have no idea about porn, or even masturbation addictions. People who share you attitude think that it is about "not being able to get a girl". "I can get a girl, therefore I am better than you and you just need to be able to get what I can get".

Get off your high horse. Simply not true. I can't tell you how many cases I've seen of people trying to kick porn and masturbation addictions in marriages that are otherwise going well. I've seen one documentary on at least 5 of them alone.

So no, it is NOT about the guy not being able to get a girl to pleasure him. It is an addiction, PERIOD. It is a psychological state, independent of the physical situation. The body thinks it NEEDs the porn/masturation. It is a strong psychological link. Has nothing to do with another girl being in the picture. It is not that simple.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I can tell you have no idea about porn, or even masturbation addictions.

umm, I guess that's a compliment, so thanks

I can't tell you how many cases I've seen of people trying to kick porn and masturbation addictions in marriages that are otherwise going well. I've seen one documentary on at least 5 of them alone.

From being married, I'd say bullsh!t to that. It's easy to appear like the marriage is doing well when it is not. If one spouse is not getting enough satisfaction from the other, then they turn elsewhere.

It is an addiction, PERIOD.

Fine. If porn is a drug, then just get another drug. There are plenty, and not all of them are bad, like adrenalin or endorphins. If your mind seeks an escape, then give it the escape it wants, but focus it on a different activity. There are plenty of female sex and masturbation addicts. Find one of them and live happily ever after. Escapism through sex is natural and normal.

 

[DJDoomage]

Yea, I used to jerk on porn (two weeks ago)... I didnt last two weeks thus far, at most it was 5 days, today is 2nd day, this time Im gonna go 5 days or so. But I did last 2 weeks without porn.


Basically, I deleted all my porn, even throw out my play boys. It is hard, porn and no mastrubation I mean. At times I find myself doing things or starting to do things. I wouldnt say its involuntary, but I just end up doing stuff.


However, the feeling I get in my crouch is absolutely worth it. That unexplained urge to do things, and while in public, is exceptional for sarging. Im extrimely agressive. SKin color, voice, face expression, everything is different, I even think differentely now.



Hang in there, if you have to jerk, jerk, but not to porn.

 

[thefonz]

tell somebody about. your parents or someone you know if you're serious about quitting and it's that big a deal

the embarrassment alone will deter you from doing it.

 

[Heart Break Kid]

Ok here's what you do:

- Do your thing
- Wait about a minute to the point where you feel all ashamed
- Delete your porn folder

Eventually you'll just get tired of downloading it. Otherwise just go cold turkey... it's not like it's a disease you lack willpower, its not a physical addiction. It's hard as hell the first 2-3 days but after you're fine.

Try to sublimate it into something else like the gym/sports/hobby.