"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a porn addiction

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deathrock said:
I have a porn addiction, and i think it's going to get in my way to becoming a Don Juan. I need help stopping this addiction. Help please.
All guys whack off. That's a fact of life.

The big question is this -

Does your addiction for porn, and whacking off disrupt your life?

If no, then relax, and do whatever it is you do...

If yes, then are really only three ways to deal with it.

1. Stop cold turkey. Delete all you porn from the computer. Throw out the magazines, and DVDs... JUST STOP. Keep yourself occupied doing something else.
Cold turkey method is hard. Takes alot of willpower.

2. Continue to whack off, and watch porn, but start to pace yourself. For the first week, only once a day as opposed to twice a day. Then once every other day. Then once every three days.... you get the idea. Eventually the in between break period will be long enough that you will no longer be whacking off at all.

3. Pace yourself. Once or twice a week is normal. No matter what though, control yourself and only allow yourself that one or two times a week...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There are many websites out there that have set people free and setting people free today through Bible centered teaching and freedom in Christ Jesus.

Two sites that may help is settingcaptivesfree.com and porn-free.org
 
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