"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You are worrying to much and overanalyzing everything. Like you said you will be confident, but if you keep worrying about these things she can pick up on it (those are afc thoughts). ASSUME attraction and that she wants to be with you. Just be yourself and if it goes good She will want to do something possibly even before Sunday! Girls Neeed to have something to do on the weekend
 

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Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.
 

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CaptainJ said:
Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.
There's a Chumpsville in Florida, about 10 miles from Gainesville.

OP, I knew from your first sentence that you put this girl on the pedestal like Princess Jasmine! Stop over-analyzing, it's poisoning your confidence. Spin more plates. It's super effective.

Don't worry, go with the flow, and be secure.

Case closed.
 

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Confused said:
I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?

Over-analyze much??






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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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