I have a hot date tonight, if it goes well..

[Confused]

I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?

 

[alwayslead8821]

You are worrying to much and overanalyzing everything. Like you said you will be confident, but if you keep worrying about these things she can pick up on it (those are afc thoughts). ASSUME attraction and that she wants to be with you. Just be yourself and if it goes good She will want to do something possibly even before Sunday! Girls Neeed to have something to do on the weekend

 

[CaptainJ]

Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.

 

[nismo-4]

Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.

There's a Chumpsville in Florida, about 10 miles from Gainesville.

OP, I knew from your first sentence that you put this girl on the pedestal like Princess Jasmine! Stop over-analyzing, it's poisoning your confidence. Spin more plates. It's super effective.

Don't worry, go with the flow, and be secure.

Case closed.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?

Over-analyze much??






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