"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a hot date tonight, if it goes well..

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I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You are worrying to much and overanalyzing everything. Like you said you will be confident, but if you keep worrying about these things she can pick up on it (those are afc thoughts). ASSUME attraction and that she wants to be with you. Just be yourself and if it goes good She will want to do something possibly even before Sunday! Girls Neeed to have something to do on the weekend
 
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Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.
 
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CaptainJ said:
Mate, you're about to lose it. You're putting her on a pedestal and risking oneitis and that's a guanranteed one way ticket to chumpsville.

The only answer is to spin more plates. Stop caring.
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There's a Chumpsville in Florida, about 10 miles from Gainesville.

OP, I knew from your first sentence that you put this girl on the pedestal like Princess Jasmine! Stop over-analyzing, it's poisoning your confidence. Spin more plates. It's super effective.

Don't worry, go with the flow, and be secure.

Case closed.
 
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Confused said:
I have a date with a spectacular HB tonight. I feel pretty confident that it will go well however I should not mention about valentines or Sunday, if she brings it up and asks me what I'm doing I'll say I'm doing nothing. However I am wary that no girl wants to be single on Valentines and if the date goes well tonight i'll the very least kiss close her. It's too soon to call her tomorrow or Saturday and at the same time I'm wary someone else will be taking her out on Sunday, if she has a fantastic time tonight with me, whoever she goes out with on Sunday won't even compare right? What if it's an ex?

I'm wary given what I know about her she may try to coerce me into taking her out on Sunday (which is fine, it's a 2nd date, we'll go to the movies or something) but at the same time I know it's a big test to see if she's got me.

Can I really risk her going out with some other dude who may not be AFC on Sunday when I could be in the driving seat and could f-close there and then?
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Over-analyze much??






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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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