"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a fat ass

Flabbergasped?

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No homo, first of all.

Anyway, in the process of bulking, I've begun to realize that my ass has gotten pretty humongous. The b!tches like it, I think, every so often some chick grabs it or says, "nice ass", but it personally ****s with my posture (I look like I have perpetual anterior pelvic tilt). I think it's a side affect of gaining some bf% from bulking; I'm starting a cutting cycle in a week anyway.

Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?

I feel like a chick. Thanks in advance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flabbergasped?

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No help?
 

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You may have a hormone problem if you are collecting fat in female places.
 

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I have the same problem dude. I searched for a million reasons to explain it awhile ago, but couldn't find one. Tight hip flexors could be the cause, in which case the solution is to stretch them out frequently for weeks and weeks, and also incorporate more lower abdominal work into your workout. Both are things that I do now.

I also have had to suffer the excessive ass grabbing :)

good luck
 

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Girls love my big ass :)
I suggest squats to tone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr.Positive

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Flabbergasped? said:
No homo, first of all.

Anyway, in the process of bulking, I've begun to realize that my ass has gotten pretty humongous. The b!tches like it, I think, every so often some chick grabs it or says, "nice ass", but it personally ****s with my posture (I look like I have perpetual anterior pelvic tilt). I think it's a side affect of gaining some bf% from bulking; I'm starting a cutting cycle in a week anyway.

Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?

I feel like a chick. Thanks in advance.

If you've been bulking, and doing heavy squats, deadlifts. Your ass will grow quite a bit, but it will be muscle, not flab. If your ass jiggles, from bulking and heavy weight, something's not right. That's fat, not muscle.

Don't hide the issue with baggy pants, etc. I'm thinking you need "leg day" to be a bit more intensive.
 

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Keep squatting son. My ass got huge, but chix dig it. So no problem to me.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Kerpal said:
Didn't you say you were giving up heavy squats?
I did give up heavy squats, I now do 2x10 squats on an IA program which feels great so far.

Mr.Positive said:
I'm thinking you need "leg day" to be a bit more intensive.
Why would a more intense leg day make my ass smaller?
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?
seriously, watch what you eat or you will get some serious cornbread-fed butt
 

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penkitten, what's your take on guys with big butts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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