"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a fat ass

Flabbergasped?

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No homo, first of all.

Anyway, in the process of bulking, I've begun to realize that my ass has gotten pretty humongous. The b!tches like it, I think, every so often some chick grabs it or says, "nice ass", but it personally ****s with my posture (I look like I have perpetual anterior pelvic tilt). I think it's a side affect of gaining some bf% from bulking; I'm starting a cutting cycle in a week anyway.

Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?

I feel like a chick. Thanks in advance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Flabbergasped?

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No help?
 

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You may have a hormone problem if you are collecting fat in female places.
 

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I have the same problem dude. I searched for a million reasons to explain it awhile ago, but couldn't find one. Tight hip flexors could be the cause, in which case the solution is to stretch them out frequently for weeks and weeks, and also incorporate more lower abdominal work into your workout. Both are things that I do now.

I also have had to suffer the excessive ass grabbing :)

good luck
 

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Girls love my big ass :)
I suggest squats to tone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr.Positive

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Flabbergasped? said:
No homo, first of all.

Anyway, in the process of bulking, I've begun to realize that my ass has gotten pretty humongous. The b!tches like it, I think, every so often some chick grabs it or says, "nice ass", but it personally ****s with my posture (I look like I have perpetual anterior pelvic tilt). I think it's a side affect of gaining some bf% from bulking; I'm starting a cutting cycle in a week anyway.

Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?

I feel like a chick. Thanks in advance.

If you've been bulking, and doing heavy squats, deadlifts. Your ass will grow quite a bit, but it will be muscle, not flab. If your ass jiggles, from bulking and heavy weight, something's not right. That's fat, not muscle.

Don't hide the issue with baggy pants, etc. I'm thinking you need "leg day" to be a bit more intensive.
 

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Keep squatting son. My ass got huge, but chix dig it. So no problem to me.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Kerpal said:
Didn't you say you were giving up heavy squats?
I did give up heavy squats, I now do 2x10 squats on an IA program which feels great so far.

Mr.Positive said:
I'm thinking you need "leg day" to be a bit more intensive.
Why would a more intense leg day make my ass smaller?
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
Are there any other ways to minimize my badonkadonk? Ways to sag your pants? Wearing more shorts?
seriously, watch what you eat or you will get some serious cornbread-fed butt
 

Flabbergasped?

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penkitten, what's your take on guys with big butts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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