AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Ugly conceited chick:
her: you're my boyfriend.
me: cool. you're my exgirlfriend.
her: you're my boyfriend.
me: cool. you're my exgirlfriend.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"I have a boyfriend"
- Thread starter nibun
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Senor Steel
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wow, a lot of new material here. I usually go with a "cool, give me a call when you dump him."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
I have a bf.
Me too!!! We have somthing in common already!!(smile)
Me too!!! We have somthing in common already!!(smile)
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I like to use the, "me too" but in a different variation. I exaggerate all my words and say in a Barbie-esque style:
OH MY GOD! I like totally like have one too! That is totally cool! like totally!
They start cracking up like a ... um ... firecracker.
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I don't really do the "would you like a man friend" or anything that insults their BF. Something like "when you dump him call me" is cool.
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Some total *****es might just say " I have a BF" the first second you meet for some reason. Oh yeah, they're *****es. Then I just go, "You mean the guy I ****ed last night?" hahahahahha. totally self degratory (sp?), but it's funny as hell. It's not like I'm ever meeting them again.
OH MY GOD! I like totally like have one too! That is totally cool! like totally!
They start cracking up like a ... um ... firecracker.
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I don't really do the "would you like a man friend" or anything that insults their BF. Something like "when you dump him call me" is cool.
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Some total *****es might just say " I have a BF" the first second you meet for some reason. Oh yeah, they're *****es. Then I just go, "You mean the guy I ****ed last night?" hahahahahha. totally self degratory (sp?), but it's funny as hell. It's not like I'm ever meeting them again.
^^ you said what I was gonna post. awesome stuff. I've had girls who told me straight upfront they had a BF, who I found out later were crazy about me from when we first met so a lot of girls are just being honest with you when they say "I have a BF."
TDOT
Don Juan
The words to an old rap song go like this:
"What ya man got to do wit me?, I'm not tryin hear that SEE?"
This is a good repsonse to that.
"What ya man got to do wit me?, I'm not tryin hear that SEE?"
This is a good repsonse to that.
TDOT
Don Juan
I got this one from a recent Papi Jack post.
When date closing, number closing etc., and she comes with "I have a boyfriend"
You Respond: Oh you're offering me his number also? Cool!
Or: Oh and you're offering to bring him too wow that's a two for one deal. Great!
She'll either roll on the floor laughing or will be floored.
You will either walk away with a successful close or walk away with your self-respect intact.
Don't ever let her have the last word on that type of rejection.
When date closing, number closing etc., and she comes with "I have a boyfriend"
You Respond: Oh you're offering me his number also? Cool!
Or: Oh and you're offering to bring him too wow that's a two for one deal. Great!
She'll either roll on the floor laughing or will be floored.
You will either walk away with a successful close or walk away with your self-respect intact.
Don't ever let her have the last word on that type of rejection.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Her: "I have a boyfriend"
Me: "Great! So what's your number?"
or
Me: "YOUR number will do.."
Me: "Great! So what's your number?"
or
Me: "YOUR number will do.."
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO 
Really?Originally posted by AFK Protector
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO
Some girls actually have this "i have a BF" response on autopilot from guys trying to PU them. Just because theyre INITIALLY not interested doesnt mean you dont have a chance.
It DOESNT show youre desperate if you persist with some class and know-how. THat shows that youre a man WORTHY of ****ing since you pass her little autoresponse defensive test, she is shocked surprised , "who is this man?" intrigued if you will.
Besides, what does it matter if she is not interested, youre interested in her thats ALL that matters.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
um...not really. Interest has gotta be there. If it isn't you have nothing to build upon. Now, if you were initially interested in someone, I'm sure you wouldn't say "oh I have a gf." You'd only use that on fat chicks.
If not, hey whatever floats ur boat, but you're gonna look kinda dumb.
If not, hey whatever floats ur boat, but you're gonna look kinda dumb.
She might be interested, but she's not sure, uncertain, maybe you've made the right move too early, or youre escalating too fast, she gets scared and throws that out, you see it as disinterest and disqualify yourself for a chick you could have ****ed that night. Way to go GI-Joe.
The intent is to make you disinterested, maybe she is telling the truth, maybe she isnt really interested, maybe she's scared, either way not to TRY to turn that around if you really want the chick is IMHO stupid.
Girls WANT to be taken, they want that romantic hero to dominate them and sweep them off their feet, to back down and cut your losses like a quitting loser aint gonna accomplish anything. Watch any hollywood production and theres usually the chick, throwing massive ****tests like this at the seducer, but he persists, he has the "right answers", he knows she's full off **** and wants him but is just testing him to see.. is his genes worth reproducing with?
Why would a girl be interested in reproducing with a male who doesnt think he stands a chance at first sign of uncertainty? From a biological standpoint youre killing yourself by not persisting.
BTW Why the **** would I care if I look dumb? I KNOW I am not dumb, thats all that matters. Try that "dontgivea****" attitude when you approach women and see them tremble and fall at your feet.
The intent is to make you disinterested, maybe she is telling the truth, maybe she isnt really interested, maybe she's scared, either way not to TRY to turn that around if you really want the chick is IMHO stupid.
Girls WANT to be taken, they want that romantic hero to dominate them and sweep them off their feet, to back down and cut your losses like a quitting loser aint gonna accomplish anything. Watch any hollywood production and theres usually the chick, throwing massive ****tests like this at the seducer, but he persists, he has the "right answers", he knows she's full off **** and wants him but is just testing him to see.. is his genes worth reproducing with?
Why would a girl be interested in reproducing with a male who doesnt think he stands a chance at first sign of uncertainty? From a biological standpoint youre killing yourself by not persisting.
BTW Why the **** would I care if I look dumb? I KNOW I am not dumb, thats all that matters. Try that "dontgivea****" attitude when you approach women and see them tremble and fall at your feet.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I agree for the most. Most of the posts in this thread are theoretical BS that won't work. If she brings up her BF when you attempt a number close next her. If she brings up her BF the first time you talk to her next her, in either situation she'll chase you. Both of you know she has a BF so it will be up to her to make the first move, after all she has nothing to lose by chasing you because she already has a BF.Originally posted by AFK Protector
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
um no.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
yeah I think you're right man. Some girls are like that. I just choose not to bother with them.
but like i said, whatever floats your boat mate
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.