AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Ugly conceited chick:
her: you're my boyfriend.
me: cool. you're my exgirlfriend.
her: you're my boyfriend.
me: cool. you're my exgirlfriend.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"I have a boyfriend"
- Thread starter nibun
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Senor Steel
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wow, a lot of new material here. I usually go with a "cool, give me a call when you dump him."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
I have a bf.
Me too!!! We have somthing in common already!!(smile)
Me too!!! We have somthing in common already!!(smile)
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I like to use the, "me too" but in a different variation. I exaggerate all my words and say in a Barbie-esque style:
OH MY GOD! I like totally like have one too! That is totally cool! like totally!
They start cracking up like a ... um ... firecracker.
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I don't really do the "would you like a man friend" or anything that insults their BF. Something like "when you dump him call me" is cool.
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Some total *****es might just say " I have a BF" the first second you meet for some reason. Oh yeah, they're *****es. Then I just go, "You mean the guy I ****ed last night?" hahahahahha. totally self degratory (sp?), but it's funny as hell. It's not like I'm ever meeting them again.
OH MY GOD! I like totally like have one too! That is totally cool! like totally!
They start cracking up like a ... um ... firecracker.
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I don't really do the "would you like a man friend" or anything that insults their BF. Something like "when you dump him call me" is cool.
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Some total *****es might just say " I have a BF" the first second you meet for some reason. Oh yeah, they're *****es. Then I just go, "You mean the guy I ****ed last night?" hahahahahha. totally self degratory (sp?), but it's funny as hell. It's not like I'm ever meeting them again.
^^ you said what I was gonna post. awesome stuff. I've had girls who told me straight upfront they had a BF, who I found out later were crazy about me from when we first met so a lot of girls are just being honest with you when they say "I have a BF."
TDOT
Don Juan
The words to an old rap song go like this:
"What ya man got to do wit me?, I'm not tryin hear that SEE?"
This is a good repsonse to that.
"What ya man got to do wit me?, I'm not tryin hear that SEE?"
This is a good repsonse to that.
TDOT
Don Juan
I got this one from a recent Papi Jack post.
When date closing, number closing etc., and she comes with "I have a boyfriend"
You Respond: Oh you're offering me his number also? Cool!
Or: Oh and you're offering to bring him too wow that's a two for one deal. Great!
She'll either roll on the floor laughing or will be floored.
You will either walk away with a successful close or walk away with your self-respect intact.
Don't ever let her have the last word on that type of rejection.
When date closing, number closing etc., and she comes with "I have a boyfriend"
You Respond: Oh you're offering me his number also? Cool!
Or: Oh and you're offering to bring him too wow that's a two for one deal. Great!
She'll either roll on the floor laughing or will be floored.
You will either walk away with a successful close or walk away with your self-respect intact.
Don't ever let her have the last word on that type of rejection.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Her: "I have a boyfriend"
Me: "Great! So what's your number?"
or
Me: "YOUR number will do.."
Me: "Great! So what's your number?"
or
Me: "YOUR number will do.."
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO 
Really?Originally posted by AFK Protector
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO
Some girls actually have this "i have a BF" response on autopilot from guys trying to PU them. Just because theyre INITIALLY not interested doesnt mean you dont have a chance.
It DOESNT show youre desperate if you persist with some class and know-how. THat shows that youre a man WORTHY of ****ing since you pass her little autoresponse defensive test, she is shocked surprised , "who is this man?" intrigued if you will.
Besides, what does it matter if she is not interested, youre interested in her thats ALL that matters.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
um...not really. Interest has gotta be there. If it isn't you have nothing to build upon. Now, if you were initially interested in someone, I'm sure you wouldn't say "oh I have a gf." You'd only use that on fat chicks.
If not, hey whatever floats ur boat, but you're gonna look kinda dumb.
If not, hey whatever floats ur boat, but you're gonna look kinda dumb.
She might be interested, but she's not sure, uncertain, maybe you've made the right move too early, or youre escalating too fast, she gets scared and throws that out, you see it as disinterest and disqualify yourself for a chick you could have ****ed that night. Way to go GI-Joe.
The intent is to make you disinterested, maybe she is telling the truth, maybe she isnt really interested, maybe she's scared, either way not to TRY to turn that around if you really want the chick is IMHO stupid.
Girls WANT to be taken, they want that romantic hero to dominate them and sweep them off their feet, to back down and cut your losses like a quitting loser aint gonna accomplish anything. Watch any hollywood production and theres usually the chick, throwing massive ****tests like this at the seducer, but he persists, he has the "right answers", he knows she's full off **** and wants him but is just testing him to see.. is his genes worth reproducing with?
Why would a girl be interested in reproducing with a male who doesnt think he stands a chance at first sign of uncertainty? From a biological standpoint youre killing yourself by not persisting.
BTW Why the **** would I care if I look dumb? I KNOW I am not dumb, thats all that matters. Try that "dontgivea****" attitude when you approach women and see them tremble and fall at your feet.
The intent is to make you disinterested, maybe she is telling the truth, maybe she isnt really interested, maybe she's scared, either way not to TRY to turn that around if you really want the chick is IMHO stupid.
Girls WANT to be taken, they want that romantic hero to dominate them and sweep them off their feet, to back down and cut your losses like a quitting loser aint gonna accomplish anything. Watch any hollywood production and theres usually the chick, throwing massive ****tests like this at the seducer, but he persists, he has the "right answers", he knows she's full off **** and wants him but is just testing him to see.. is his genes worth reproducing with?
Why would a girl be interested in reproducing with a male who doesnt think he stands a chance at first sign of uncertainty? From a biological standpoint youre killing yourself by not persisting.
BTW Why the **** would I care if I look dumb? I KNOW I am not dumb, thats all that matters. Try that "dontgivea****" attitude when you approach women and see them tremble and fall at your feet.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I agree for the most. Most of the posts in this thread are theoretical BS that won't work. If she brings up her BF when you attempt a number close next her. If she brings up her BF the first time you talk to her next her, in either situation she'll chase you. Both of you know she has a BF so it will be up to her to make the first move, after all she has nothing to lose by chasing you because she already has a BF.Originally posted by AFK Protector
This thread is pointless. Regardless whether or not she has a bf, it means she is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. So back the fvck off and find a nother girl. Seriously, all this does is show that you're one desperate mothafvcka who can't cut his losses and move on. BOOO
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
um no.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
yeah I think you're right man. Some girls are like that. I just choose not to bother with them.
but like i said, whatever floats your boat mate
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.