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Master Don Juan
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I get a new girl's number almost every day. Today, almost. Yesterday, almost...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"I have a boyfriend"
- Thread starter nibun
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Lordeterra
Senior Don Juan
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not true. They say it as an instinct so they dont have to take responsbility if my **** is in there pvssy the next day.
Lordeterra
Senior Don Juan
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bro. get a life.
2Rocky
Master Don Juan
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It's funny, when I tell women I have a girlfriend, they usually start grilling me about her. How long have you been dating? ??Does she have kids? Do your Kids or ex like her? were the last convo I had.
I wonder if we did the same thing to women what the reaction would be? Especially after talking to them, Said , "hey can you give me his number? He sounds like a cool guy I'd like to hangout with?"
I remember 5 years ago I was poolside at a resort and started chatting up the cute blonde next to me. After awhile she let the B-word slip, I asked her about him and it turns out he was a famous actor from an old sitcom. She introduced me when he came to join her and we hung out that night later..
I wonder if we did the same thing to women what the reaction would be? Especially after talking to them, Said , "hey can you give me his number? He sounds like a cool guy I'd like to hangout with?"
I remember 5 years ago I was poolside at a resort and started chatting up the cute blonde next to me. After awhile she let the B-word slip, I asked her about him and it turns out he was a famous actor from an old sitcom. She introduced me when he came to join her and we hung out that night later..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.