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Master Don Juan
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I get a new girl's number almost every day. Today, almost. Yesterday, almost...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"I have a boyfriend"
- Thread starter nibun
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Lordeterra
Senior Don Juan
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not true. They say it as an instinct so they dont have to take responsbility if my **** is in there pvssy the next day.
Lordeterra
Senior Don Juan
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bro. get a life.
2Rocky
Master Don Juan
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It's funny, when I tell women I have a girlfriend, they usually start grilling me about her. How long have you been dating? ??Does she have kids? Do your Kids or ex like her? were the last convo I had.
I wonder if we did the same thing to women what the reaction would be? Especially after talking to them, Said , "hey can you give me his number? He sounds like a cool guy I'd like to hangout with?"
I remember 5 years ago I was poolside at a resort and started chatting up the cute blonde next to me. After awhile she let the B-word slip, I asked her about him and it turns out he was a famous actor from an old sitcom. She introduced me when he came to join her and we hung out that night later..
I wonder if we did the same thing to women what the reaction would be? Especially after talking to them, Said , "hey can you give me his number? He sounds like a cool guy I'd like to hangout with?"
I remember 5 years ago I was poolside at a resort and started chatting up the cute blonde next to me. After awhile she let the B-word slip, I asked her about him and it turns out he was a famous actor from an old sitcom. She introduced me when he came to join her and we hung out that night later..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.