Doctor Europeo
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Wish me luck brothers
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This isnt my first rodeo...Well, I guess it is, but you know what I mean.I hope you have a prenup
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nothing fancy. I did not get on one knee.Congrats! How did you propose?
it is just as important, if not more important with a postnup after the marriage has been sealed.I hope you have a prenup
Congrats! You don't need luck. Keep being you and let the train keep going down the tracks since things are going well.Wish me luck brothers
No it gets worst after you are married. In my case she gained weight, stopped giving oral, and stopped putting out altogether when things got too tight. I would likely still have a gf today if I did not marry her. The marriage brought out the worst in both of us.Congratulations and good luck.
My advice is:
In life: NEVER forget a woman’s cycle and be on guard for it. Don’t do what I did and forget and wonder why she’s turned into a nutcase. Then remember 2 days in after arguments which could have been avoided by if orijt
In arguments: Never back down and never give in, unless you’re wrong or part wrong. Tell it as it is. You’re a leader and you have to be wedded to reality. Most wives will threaten to leave when they can’t get their way (on my 2nd). Tell them to leave, tell them they should NEVER threaten that. Remember, divorces from women happen out of the blue, they aren’t announced in advance.
Yourself: if you want peace, prepare for war. Keep yourself in the mindset that if she died or left tomorrow, you need to be in a condition that you could immediately get a new girl.
In bed: Never stop servicing. Also remember, now you’re married, you can ask her for things you can’t ask a GF….sechs can actually get better when girl is married as she feels secure….
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.