Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.Expect more of this from these dating apps...the mods are mostly women.I was banned from Match once for answering a question..but I pull no punches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are you getting dates at least?i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.
i hope i wont get ban now.
funny thing, i dont even live in big city, and i still get many matches, but i STILL cant get a gf or plate. fml
Mostly flakes, some dates yes. But women i get to date are delusional. They all live in their heads. One rejected me for thinking im i player and above her smv, one kicked me out of house for ''kissing poorly" other girls are mentally sick druggies, couple said i looked worse than on pic, some i get to 2nd or even 5nd date but no sex, then they ghost. Some for escalating too quick, some idk whyAre you getting dates at least?
Tinder is insanely unreliable but if you’re getting matches that’s the best start.i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.
i hope i wont get ban now.
funny thing, i dont even live in big city, and i still get many matches, but i STILL cant get a gf or plate. fml
There's crazies everywhere, I've went out with a couple too, but I've definitely haven't had a problem with the sex part.Mostly flakes, some dates yes. But women i get to date are delusional. They all live in their heads. One rejected me for thinking im i player and above her smv, one kicked me out of house for ''kissing poorly" other girls are mentally sick druggies, couple said i looked worse than on pic, some i get to 2nd or even 5nd date but no sex, then they ghost. Some for escalating too quick, some idk why
Oh and one called me cute
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.