"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i got banned by tinder 2 times in 3 days wtf
- Thread starter sosousage
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.
i hope i wont get ban now.
funny thing, i dont even live in big city, and i still get many matches, but i STILL cant get a gf or plate. fml
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MoreThanSmooth
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djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Are you getting dates at least?
Mostly flakes, some dates yes. But women i get to date are delusional. They all live in their heads. One rejected me for thinking im i player and above her smv, one kicked me out of house for ''kissing poorly" other girls are mentally sick druggies, couple said i looked worse than on pic, some i get to 2nd or even 5nd date but no sex, then they ghost. Some for escalating too quick, some idk why
Oh and one called me cute
MoreThanSmooth
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Tinder is insanely unreliable but if you’re getting matches that’s the best start.
Mine’s almost completely dead recently. And the matches I do get don’t bother talking. Same s*** on Bumble too...
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
There's crazies everywhere, I've went out with a couple too, but I've definitely haven't had a problem with the sex part.
If you're trying to get laid by the second date, that is just way too fast, unless you're an Australian model, you'll have very bad luck, the main reason i get such low rejection rates for sex is because i don't even try it, i just go out until THEY say or start showing signs they want to get physical with me.
And you can't blame them, you're a stranger who just met them, some girls are gonna be careful.
"some idk why". If you don't know why, you have to tighten your game, you NEED to know exactly what the problem is, wether they don't like you to begin with, or they're mercenaries, or if you're lowering their interest with what you're saying.
And to that i'll suggest you Doc Love's radio show, the advices to real life situations of his followers reaaally helped me tighten everything up.
Another tip: try asking them: "what do you like most about your personality", before you go for the date. You'll be surprised at some answers.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.