Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
i got banned by tinder 2 times in 3 days wtf
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.
i hope i wont get ban now.
funny thing, i dont even live in big city, and i still get many matches, but i STILL cant get a gf or plate. fml
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MoreThanSmooth
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djthiago1
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Are you getting dates at least?
Mostly flakes, some dates yes. But women i get to date are delusional. They all live in their heads. One rejected me for thinking im i player and above her smv, one kicked me out of house for ''kissing poorly" other girls are mentally sick druggies, couple said i looked worse than on pic, some i get to 2nd or even 5nd date but no sex, then they ghost. Some for escalating too quick, some idk why
Oh and one called me cute
MoreThanSmooth
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Tinder is insanely unreliable but if you’re getting matches that’s the best start.
Mine’s almost completely dead recently. And the matches I do get don’t bother talking. Same s*** on Bumble too...
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
There's crazies everywhere, I've went out with a couple too, but I've definitely haven't had a problem with the sex part.
If you're trying to get laid by the second date, that is just way too fast, unless you're an Australian model, you'll have very bad luck, the main reason i get such low rejection rates for sex is because i don't even try it, i just go out until THEY say or start showing signs they want to get physical with me.
And you can't blame them, you're a stranger who just met them, some girls are gonna be careful.
"some idk why". If you don't know why, you have to tighten your game, you NEED to know exactly what the problem is, wether they don't like you to begin with, or they're mercenaries, or if you're lowering their interest with what you're saying.
And to that i'll suggest you Doc Love's radio show, the advices to real life situations of his followers reaaally helped me tighten everything up.
Another tip: try asking them: "what do you like most about your personality", before you go for the date. You'll be surprised at some answers.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.