"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i got banned by tinder 2 times in 3 days wtf
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
i recreated account again. matched me with 10 girls + it shows I have +25 likes already but i reached swipping limit.
i hope i wont get ban now.
funny thing, i dont even live in big city, and i still get many matches, but i STILL cant get a gf or plate. fml
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MoreThanSmooth
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djthiago1
Master Don Juan
Are you getting dates at least?
Mostly flakes, some dates yes. But women i get to date are delusional. They all live in their heads. One rejected me for thinking im i player and above her smv, one kicked me out of house for ''kissing poorly" other girls are mentally sick druggies, couple said i looked worse than on pic, some i get to 2nd or even 5nd date but no sex, then they ghost. Some for escalating too quick, some idk why
Oh and one called me cute
MoreThanSmooth
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Tinder is insanely unreliable but if you’re getting matches that’s the best start.
Mine’s almost completely dead recently. And the matches I do get don’t bother talking. Same s*** on Bumble too...
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
There's crazies everywhere, I've went out with a couple too, but I've definitely haven't had a problem with the sex part.
If you're trying to get laid by the second date, that is just way too fast, unless you're an Australian model, you'll have very bad luck, the main reason i get such low rejection rates for sex is because i don't even try it, i just go out until THEY say or start showing signs they want to get physical with me.
And you can't blame them, you're a stranger who just met them, some girls are gonna be careful.
"some idk why". If you don't know why, you have to tighten your game, you NEED to know exactly what the problem is, wether they don't like you to begin with, or they're mercenaries, or if you're lowering their interest with what you're saying.
And to that i'll suggest you Doc Love's radio show, the advices to real life situations of his followers reaaally helped me tighten everything up.
Another tip: try asking them: "what do you like most about your personality", before you go for the date. You'll be surprised at some answers.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.