For those of you who read my last post you could see that I was excited to take out this girl. So call her up today to plan our lunch date and she gave me her bf number! Pretty sweet huh! But oh well that stuff happens and move on to the next hot girl right!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I got a wrong number today!
- Thread starter Covey21
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
VoodooChild
Senior Don Juan
That's f'in harsh, man. Why oh why don't women have the courage to just tell us when they're not interested instead of leading us on and then using something like that to get rid of us? And yeah, I would have screwed with the guy too.
MysteryWoman
Master Don Juan
Actually I am guilty of making up numbers to persistant guys I just could not get rid off. But to give out her boyfriend's number is crazy.
Thats the thing though I was nice and she was flirting with me 100% thats why I went for it! I just think its kind of funny! I could tell the bf was getting pretty heated while I was on the phone with him! So I think I dealt with it with class I told him congrats on getting a hottie and to take it easy. I dont think I would have gained anything by degrading her!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GirlCrazy
Master Don Juan
Almost all women do that or have done that at least once. Another variation of that is giving the correct phone number and flaking out on the date.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
Heh. That's pretty interesting I think ... perhaps the girl used the situation when she was with you JUST to test her own boyfriend ...
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
Doppler4000
Senior Don Juan
Assuming you're not making a pest of yourself, women who can't politely say no to a phone number request and have to resort to passing out fake numbers, wrong numbers, etc. or even their real number with no intention of ever talking to you again are nothing but gutless cowards. Consider yourself lucky that you'll never date this chick.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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bf's
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
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ThisParvane said:
I found out one of my last plates used to do this after I dropped her. I told her exactly how I felt about it. It's just screams low quality. What a cvnt. Well done for keeping your integrity and playing it cool. That's all you can do!
Valentino14
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Do you guys realize that you're commenting on a thread that's almost 11 years old?
your plate gave you a bum number? :crazy:IndeedSir said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backseatjuan
Banned
Do call that number again and ask for 'her name'. Hi, can I speak to 'her name'........ Tell her to call me please.......... She gave me this number....... etc
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.