For those of you who read my last post you could see that I was excited to take out this girl. So call her up today to plan our lunch date and she gave me her bf number! Pretty sweet huh! But oh well that stuff happens and move on to the next hot girl right!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I got a wrong number today!
- Thread starter Covey21
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VoodooChild
Senior Don Juan
That's f'in harsh, man. Why oh why don't women have the courage to just tell us when they're not interested instead of leading us on and then using something like that to get rid of us? And yeah, I would have screwed with the guy too.
MysteryWoman
Master Don Juan
Actually I am guilty of making up numbers to persistant guys I just could not get rid off. But to give out her boyfriend's number is crazy.
Thats the thing though I was nice and she was flirting with me 100% thats why I went for it! I just think its kind of funny! I could tell the bf was getting pretty heated while I was on the phone with him! So I think I dealt with it with class I told him congrats on getting a hottie and to take it easy. I dont think I would have gained anything by degrading her!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GirlCrazy
Master Don Juan
Almost all women do that or have done that at least once. Another variation of that is giving the correct phone number and flaking out on the date.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
Heh. That's pretty interesting I think ... perhaps the girl used the situation when she was with you JUST to test her own boyfriend ...
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
Doppler4000
Senior Don Juan
Assuming you're not making a pest of yourself, women who can't politely say no to a phone number request and have to resort to passing out fake numbers, wrong numbers, etc. or even their real number with no intention of ever talking to you again are nothing but gutless cowards. Consider yourself lucky that you'll never date this chick.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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bf's
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
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ThisParvane said:
I found out one of my last plates used to do this after I dropped her. I told her exactly how I felt about it. It's just screams low quality. What a cvnt. Well done for keeping your integrity and playing it cool. That's all you can do!
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Do you guys realize that you're commenting on a thread that's almost 11 years old?
your plate gave you a bum number? :crazy:IndeedSir said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backseatjuan
Banned
Do call that number again and ask for 'her name'. Hi, can I speak to 'her name'........ Tell her to call me please.......... She gave me this number....... etc
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.