For those of you who read my last post you could see that I was excited to take out this girl. So call her up today to plan our lunch date and she gave me her bf number! Pretty sweet huh! But oh well that stuff happens and move on to the next hot girl right!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I got a wrong number today!
- Thread starter Covey21
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VoodooChild
Senior Don Juan
That's f'in harsh, man. Why oh why don't women have the courage to just tell us when they're not interested instead of leading us on and then using something like that to get rid of us? And yeah, I would have screwed with the guy too.
MysteryWoman
Master Don Juan
Actually I am guilty of making up numbers to persistant guys I just could not get rid off. But to give out her boyfriend's number is crazy.
Thats the thing though I was nice and she was flirting with me 100% thats why I went for it! I just think its kind of funny! I could tell the bf was getting pretty heated while I was on the phone with him! So I think I dealt with it with class I told him congrats on getting a hottie and to take it easy. I dont think I would have gained anything by degrading her!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
GirlCrazy
Master Don Juan
Almost all women do that or have done that at least once. Another variation of that is giving the correct phone number and flaking out on the date.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
It's just one form of rejection. Don't take it personally Covey21. You shouldn't dwell on it.
Heh. That's pretty interesting I think ... perhaps the girl used the situation when she was with you JUST to test her own boyfriend ...
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
She's trying to give the bf a message, "other guys are interested in me, and you'd better know it!" Now she's going to wait and see how the bf reacts...and you Covey21 were the pawn in her game..
anakin
Doppler4000
Senior Don Juan
Assuming you're not making a pest of yourself, women who can't politely say no to a phone number request and have to resort to passing out fake numbers, wrong numbers, etc. or even their real number with no intention of ever talking to you again are nothing but gutless cowards. Consider yourself lucky that you'll never date this chick.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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bf's
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
did the guy say he was her bf? Maybe he is or maybe he just picked up her phone or both...
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ThisParvane said:
I found out one of my last plates used to do this after I dropped her. I told her exactly how I felt about it. It's just screams low quality. What a cvnt. Well done for keeping your integrity and playing it cool. That's all you can do!
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Do you guys realize that you're commenting on a thread that's almost 11 years old?
your plate gave you a bum number? :crazy:IndeedSir said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backseatjuan
Banned
Do call that number again and ask for 'her name'. Hi, can I speak to 'her name'........ Tell her to call me please.......... She gave me this number....... etc
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.
Personally I'd break her nose if I saw her again for doing that, just straight up walk up to her and break her nose, and then maybe add and break her jaw. But since you're in feminist country I don't recommend you do that.