Okay guys, my friend's ex has been interested in me ever since they broke up. We've been talking here and there and she keeps telling me how hot I am, I still have yet to compliment her ;-). She's pretty hot (tanned hb8/8.5) and really outgoing. So basically now I have her dieng for me because I'm hinting here and there that I like her, but at the same time not being that AFC that gives it all out to the girl. So basically I'm playing hard to get and she's dieng for me lol. Problem is...we still haven't gone on a date because I don't know how to slip the parents. If we do go on a date, there will definitely be major makeout sessions since I got the tension to build up. Anyway I had to let it out cause it feels good to have a girl after you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I got a girl on a leash :)
- Thread starter jlazz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Tell your parents you're just going out with some friends. If you don't have a car, then go on a date to the movies with her and just have them drop you off there and you'll meet her there. Not that hard.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
strams4ever
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I agree!