"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got a girl on a leash :)

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Okay guys, my friend's ex has been interested in me ever since they broke up. We've been talking here and there and she keeps telling me how hot I am, I still have yet to compliment her ;-). She's pretty hot (tanned hb8/8.5) and really outgoing. So basically now I have her dieng for me because I'm hinting here and there that I like her, but at the same time not being that AFC that gives it all out to the girl. So basically I'm playing hard to get and she's dieng for me lol. Problem is...we still haven't gone on a date because I don't know how to slip the parents. If we do go on a date, there will definitely be major makeout sessions since I got the tension to build up. Anyway I had to let it out cause it feels good to have a girl after you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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08aisaac

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oh yeah. Hot chicks experience this kind of joy all the time. They can have so many guys after them that it gets annoying.
 

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At one point she even said "I just want hot guy who isn't desperate to like me"...all she has after her are chumps haha.
 

familyguyfan

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Tell your parents you're just going out with some friends. If you don't have a car, then go on a date to the movies with her and just have them drop you off there and you'll meet her there. Not that hard.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dadmonson

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Originally posted by jlazz
Okay guys, my friend's ex has been interested in me ever since they broke up. We've been talking here and there and she keeps telling me how hot I am, I still have yet to compliment her ;-). She's pretty hot (tanned hb8/8.5) and really outgoing. So basically now I have her dieng for me because I'm hinting here and there that I like her, but at the same time not being that AFC that gives it all out to the girl. So basically I'm playing hard to get and she's dieng for me lol. Problem is...we still haven't gone on a date because I don't know how to slip the parents. If we do go on a date, there will definitely be major makeout sessions since I got the tension to build up. Anyway I had to let it out cause it feels good to have a girl after you.
My suggestion is to f*ck this girl and then drop her or else she will. These type of girls don't make good girlfriends. They get bored quick with guys. Trust me I know.
 

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Re: Re: I got a girl on a leash :)

Originally posted by dadmonson
My suggestion is to f*ck this girl and then drop her or else she will. These type of girls don't make good girlfriends. They get bored quick with guys. Trust me I know.
I agree!
 
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