Okay guys, my friend's ex has been interested in me ever since they broke up. We've been talking here and there and she keeps telling me how hot I am, I still have yet to compliment her ;-). She's pretty hot (tanned hb8/8.5) and really outgoing. So basically now I have her dieng for me because I'm hinting here and there that I like her, but at the same time not being that AFC that gives it all out to the girl. So basically I'm playing hard to get and she's dieng for me lol. Problem is...we still haven't gone on a date because I don't know how to slip the parents. If we do go on a date, there will definitely be major makeout sessions since I got the tension to build up. Anyway I had to let it out cause it feels good to have a girl after you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I got a girl on a leash :)
- Thread starter jlazz
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Aznkid1030
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Tell your parents you're just going out with some friends. If you don't have a car, then go on a date to the movies with her and just have them drop you off there and you'll meet her there. Not that hard.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
strams4ever
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Re: Re: I got a girl on a leash
I agree!