Okay guys, my friend's ex has been interested in me ever since they broke up. We've been talking here and there and she keeps telling me how hot I am, I still have yet to compliment her ;-). She's pretty hot (tanned hb8/8.5) and really outgoing. So basically now I have her dieng for me because I'm hinting here and there that I like her, but at the same time not being that AFC that gives it all out to the girl. So basically I'm playing hard to get and she's dieng for me lol. Problem is...we still haven't gone on a date because I don't know how to slip the parents. If we do go on a date, there will definitely be major makeout sessions since I got the tension to build up. Anyway I had to let it out cause it feels good to have a girl after you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I got a girl on a leash :)
- Thread starter jlazz
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Aznkid1030
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Tell your parents you're just going out with some friends. If you don't have a car, then go on a date to the movies with her and just have them drop you off there and you'll meet her there. Not that hard.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
strams4ever
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Re: Re: I got a girl on a leash
I agree!