Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
The pic is back up. This is a different one though
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I get no response to my EC!
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MrBond_Age
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Theres something wrong, very wrong with your face but I just cant figure it out. Ill think about it. For a starter: stop smilling or opening your mouth. It looks forced.
Player_Supreme
Banned
1. you need to get to a hair stylist.
2. you do look like a creep...lol...j/k.
3. I hope your not dressing like that when your going for eye contact. Women love eye candy. You must be pleasing to the eyes...like the apple in the garden of eden.
4. You also need to build your body up. Your way to skinny kid. No man should be that small.
5. Learn to have more inner self confidence. Your lack thereof shows.
2. you do look like a creep...lol...j/k.
3. I hope your not dressing like that when your going for eye contact. Women love eye candy. You must be pleasing to the eyes...like the apple in the garden of eden.
4. You also need to build your body up. Your way to skinny kid. No man should be that small.
5. Learn to have more inner self confidence. Your lack thereof shows.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
I got a question...When I give eye contact, I almost never smile...Some girls will give quick eye contact or give a weird fake smile, and then they will look down...Is it cause Im scaring them or something? Im 6'3, 250 pounds by the way, if that means anything...
Player_Supreme
Banned
1. Smile more. Your a big dude so you need to soften your approach. 6'3 and 250 is kinda scarry to ho's these days.
2. You also need work on the inside so that when you smile it is genuine and real and they can actually feel it. Nothing turns people in general on more than a honest smile.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Maybe it's my whole presentation that needs tweaking. I'm 6' 2", 160 lbs. I think i dress well. At least better than I did a year ago (wearing all black ragged clothes). I'll get a haircut in the next couple of days btw 
PlayerSupreme:
you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
PlayerSupreme:
you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
I disagree, you look confident enough, well, you're showing some sort of confidence. Everything is about presentation, if you stare down a chick, chances are she's gonna freak, however, if you keep eye contact and look comfortable, it'll be different.
You might be coming on too hard, or too ridged. Try relaxing a bit more?
~ivan
You might be coming on too hard, or too ridged. Try relaxing a bit more?
~ivan
Player_Supreme
Banned
I am judging that on your photos that you put up. Your smile laced true confidence and self esteem. I don't know if that is the current you though.Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Maybe it's my whole presentation that needs tweaking. I'm 6' 2", 160 lbs. I think i dress well. At least better than I did a year ago (wearing all black ragged clothes). I'll get a haircut in the next couple of days btw
PlayerSupreme:
you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
Tao of Steve
Don Juan
u look kinda sad and intoverted on the 2cnd pic, but the first one has a kinda experienced, slightly bad boy kind a look
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
God_of_getting_layed
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Im gonna tell it like it is, and give you some tips:
1. You look pale and pasty, you almost look sick. I strongly suggest you get a tan. Go to a tanning bed ASAP. THis will make a big difference.
2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious.
Basically you look really wussy and dorky looking, no offense. Im telling it like it is. When women see you, they think "dork/nerd/ewww", this is your problem. You need to work out and get muscles immedietly. And I would suggest either shaving your head or wearing some hairstyle where the front is combed down, like a ceasar cut, (like eminem has). You dont have the hairline to be wearing it up like you have it now.
3. You need to focus on de-dorking yourself. This is your problem. Being dorky looking is worse than being ugly in the face.. change your look so you look tough and badboyish, but still pretty at the same time. Your definitly going to need to work out.
1. You look pale and pasty, you almost look sick. I strongly suggest you get a tan. Go to a tanning bed ASAP. THis will make a big difference.
2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious.
Basically you look really wussy and dorky looking, no offense. Im telling it like it is. When women see you, they think "dork/nerd/ewww", this is your problem. You need to work out and get muscles immedietly. And I would suggest either shaving your head or wearing some hairstyle where the front is combed down, like a ceasar cut, (like eminem has). You dont have the hairline to be wearing it up like you have it now.
No he doesnt. He looks far from a badboy, more of the opposite, a submissive dork look. But fortunetly, this can be fixed, he just needs to change his look.
3. You need to focus on de-dorking yourself. This is your problem. Being dorky looking is worse than being ugly in the face.. change your look so you look tough and badboyish, but still pretty at the same time. Your definitly going to need to work out.
Player_Supreme
Banned
I don't like you, but you said something pretty funny:
"2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious."
bwahahahahaha....now that's funny right thurr.
Now why don't you put up your photo also for us to see how it's suppose to be done. Show us the way oh great god of the delayed...
Lead the way homie. Us your willing servents shall await...
FoxHound20
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Well now that we have the opinion of several gay hair-dressers, let's get an opinion of a heterosexual male.
You aren't ugly, You don't look like a monster, You don't come across as eww to a girl. I'm pretty sure that the glare of the screen and flash of the camera is what creates that "pasty" effect that these guys are talking about. Don't sweat it man! I personally can't see what girls wouldn't be attracted to you.. in that first picture you look great man. You show positive confidence and give off a good vibe. Just keep your head up, smile, and keep giving off the Eye Contact.. they'll eat it up man!
Everyone has this idea that you have to look like Brad Pitt or some Abercrombie and Fitch model to be successful with girls... don't believe a word of that ****.
You aren't ugly, You don't look like a monster, You don't come across as eww to a girl. I'm pretty sure that the glare of the screen and flash of the camera is what creates that "pasty" effect that these guys are talking about. Don't sweat it man! I personally can't see what girls wouldn't be attracted to you.. in that first picture you look great man. You show positive confidence and give off a good vibe. Just keep your head up, smile, and keep giving off the Eye Contact.. they'll eat it up man!
Everyone has this idea that you have to look like Brad Pitt or some Abercrombie and Fitch model to be successful with girls... don't believe a word of that ****.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.