Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
The pic is back up. This is a different one though
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
1. Smile more. Your a big dude so you need to soften your approach. 6'3 and 250 is kinda scarry to ho's these days.Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
I got a question...When I give eye contact, I almost never smile...Some girls will give quick eye contact or give a weird fake smile, and then they will look down...Is it cause Im scaring them or something? Im 6'3, 250 pounds by the way, if that means anything...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I am judging that on your photos that you put up. Your smile laced true confidence and self esteem. I don't know if that is the current you though.Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Maybe it's my whole presentation that needs tweaking. I'm 6' 2", 160 lbs. I think i dress well. At least better than I did a year ago (wearing all black ragged clothes). I'll get a haircut in the next couple of days btw
PlayerSupreme:
you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
u look kinda sad and intoverted on the 2cnd pic, but the first one has a kinda experienced, slightly bad boy kind a lookOriginally posted by Life-Trainee
I'm pretty sure it's not my appearance.
Here's a pic
http://www.paul.webmagnifique.com/images/mee.jpg
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No he doesnt. He looks far from a badboy, more of the opposite, a submissive dork look. But fortunetly, this can be fixed, he just needs to change his look.but the first one has a kinda experienced, slightly bad boy kind a look
Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
Im gonna tell it like it is, and give you some tips:
1. You look pale and pasty, you almost look sick. I strongly suggest you get a tan. Go to a tanning bed ASAP. THis will make a big difference.
2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious.
Basically you look really wussy and dorky looking, no offense. Im telling it like it is. When women see you, they think "dork/nerd/ewww", this is your problem. You need to work out and get muscles immedietly. And I would suggest either shaving your head or wearing some hairstyle where the front is combed down, like a ceasar cut, (like eminem has). You dont have the hairline to be wearing it up like you have it now.
No he doesnt. He looks far from a badboy, more of the opposite, a submissive dork look. But fortunetly, this can be fixed, he just needs to change his look.
3. You need to focus on de-dorking yourself. This is your problem. Being dorky looking is worse than being ugly in the face.. change your look so you look tough and badboyish, but still pretty at the same time. Your definitly going to need to work out.
That's where I would start as well. Your haircut does not flatter your face at all. Look for a style that doesn't draw attention to your forehead, but instead lets them focus on your eyes.Originally posted by Fatality
I'd change the hair.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well now that we've heard from Average Joe, aka typical unattractive lazy-ass wont-invest-in-himself chumpball, i suggest the OP goes back to the mouthy dude's post... at least he has a fu*king clue dudeOriginally posted by FoxHound20
Well now that we have the opinion of several gay hair-dressers, let's get an opinion of a heterosexual male.
You aren't ugly, You don't look like a monster, You don't come across as eww to a girl. I'm pretty sure that the glare of the screen and flash of the camera is what creates that "pasty" effect that these guys are talking about. Don't sweat it man! I personally can't see what girls wouldn't be attracted to you.. in that first picture you look great man. You show positive confidence and give off a good vibe. Just keep your head up, smile, and keep giving off the Eye Contact.. they'll eat it up man!
Everyone has this idea that you have to look like Brad Pitt or some Abercrombie and Fitch model to be successful with girls... don't believe a word of that ****.