"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I get no response to my EC!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MrBond_Age

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Theres something wrong, very wrong with your face but I just cant figure it out. Ill think about it. For a starter: stop smilling or opening your mouth. It looks forced.
 
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1. you need to get to a hair stylist.

2. you do look like a creep...lol...j/k.

3. I hope your not dressing like that when your going for eye contact. Women love eye candy. You must be pleasing to the eyes...like the apple in the garden of eden.

4. You also need to build your body up. Your way to skinny kid. No man should be that small.

5. Learn to have more inner self confidence. Your lack thereof shows.
 

TheInfamousCBear

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I got a question...When I give eye contact, I almost never smile...Some girls will give quick eye contact or give a weird fake smile, and then they will look down...Is it cause Im scaring them or something? Im 6'3, 250 pounds by the way, if that means anything...
 
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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
I got a question...When I give eye contact, I almost never smile...Some girls will give quick eye contact or give a weird fake smile, and then they will look down...Is it cause Im scaring them or something? Im 6'3, 250 pounds by the way, if that means anything...
1. Smile more. Your a big dude so you need to soften your approach. 6'3 and 250 is kinda scarry to ho's these days.

2. You also need work on the inside so that when you smile it is genuine and real and they can actually feel it. Nothing turns people in general on more than a honest smile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe it's my whole presentation that needs tweaking. I'm 6' 2", 160 lbs. I think i dress well. At least better than I did a year ago (wearing all black ragged clothes). I'll get a haircut in the next couple of days btw :)

PlayerSupreme:

you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
 

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I disagree, you look confident enough, well, you're showing some sort of confidence. Everything is about presentation, if you stare down a chick, chances are she's gonna freak, however, if you keep eye contact and look comfortable, it'll be different.

You might be coming on too hard, or too ridged. Try relaxing a bit more?

~ivan
 
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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Maybe it's my whole presentation that needs tweaking. I'm 6' 2", 160 lbs. I think i dress well. At least better than I did a year ago (wearing all black ragged clothes). I'll get a haircut in the next couple of days btw :)

PlayerSupreme:

you said that I don't look confident, can you elaborate on that?
I am judging that on your photos that you put up. Your smile laced true confidence and self esteem. I don't know if that is the current you though.
 

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I think it's kind of hard to judge how real this guys smile looks in a pic because I think just about averybody's smile looks fake in a pic. Why, because it is.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im gonna tell it like it is, and give you some tips:

1. You look pale and pasty, you almost look sick. I strongly suggest you get a tan. Go to a tanning bed ASAP. THis will make a big difference.

2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious.

Basically you look really wussy and dorky looking, no offense. Im telling it like it is. When women see you, they think "dork/nerd/ewww", this is your problem. You need to work out and get muscles immedietly. And I would suggest either shaving your head or wearing some hairstyle where the front is combed down, like a ceasar cut, (like eminem has). You dont have the hairline to be wearing it up like you have it now.

but the first one has a kinda experienced, slightly bad boy kind a look
No he doesnt. He looks far from a badboy, more of the opposite, a submissive dork look. But fortunetly, this can be fixed, he just needs to change his look.

3. You need to focus on de-dorking yourself. This is your problem. Being dorky looking is worse than being ugly in the face.. change your look so you look tough and badboyish, but still pretty at the same time. Your definitly going to need to work out.
 
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Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
Im gonna tell it like it is, and give you some tips:

1. You look pale and pasty, you almost look sick. I strongly suggest you get a tan. Go to a tanning bed ASAP. THis will make a big difference.

2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious.

Basically you look really wussy and dorky looking, no offense. Im telling it like it is. When women see you, they think "dork/nerd/ewww", this is your problem. You need to work out and get muscles immedietly. And I would suggest either shaving your head or wearing some hairstyle where the front is combed down, like a ceasar cut, (like eminem has). You dont have the hairline to be wearing it up like you have it now.



No he doesnt. He looks far from a badboy, more of the opposite, a submissive dork look. But fortunetly, this can be fixed, he just needs to change his look.

3. You need to focus on de-dorking yourself. This is your problem. Being dorky looking is worse than being ugly in the face.. change your look so you look tough and badboyish, but still pretty at the same time. Your definitly going to need to work out.



I don't like you, but you said something pretty funny:


"2. Your hair looks like Sh!t, it looks like you cut it yourself. You got the Butthead hairstyle going on, all you need is a blonde guy sitting next to you that looks like beavis, and you could almost be the real life beavis and butthead. BTW, there was an article in FHM of the real life beavis, they had a pic of some guy who lookied just like a real life beavis, did anyone see it? It was hilarious."


:D :D :D :D

bwahahahahaha....now that's funny right thurr.

Now why don't you put up your photo also for us to see how it's suppose to be done. Show us the way oh great god of the delayed...

Lead the way homie. Us your willing servents shall await...
 

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Well now that we have the opinion of several gay hair-dressers, let's get an opinion of a heterosexual male.

You aren't ugly, You don't look like a monster, You don't come across as eww to a girl. I'm pretty sure that the glare of the screen and flash of the camera is what creates that "pasty" effect that these guys are talking about. Don't sweat it man! I personally can't see what girls wouldn't be attracted to you.. in that first picture you look great man. You show positive confidence and give off a good vibe. Just keep your head up, smile, and keep giving off the Eye Contact.. they'll eat it up man!

Everyone has this idea that you have to look like Brad Pitt or some Abercrombie and Fitch model to be successful with girls... don't believe a word of that ****.
 

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I'd change the hair.

Other than that he looks every bit as good as the guys I see with alot of chicks.
 

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Originally posted by Fatality
I'd change the hair.
That's where I would start as well. Your haircut does not flatter your face at all. Look for a style that doesn't draw attention to your forehead, but instead lets them focus on your eyes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Originally posted by FoxHound20
Well now that we have the opinion of several gay hair-dressers, let's get an opinion of a heterosexual male.

You aren't ugly, You don't look like a monster, You don't come across as eww to a girl. I'm pretty sure that the glare of the screen and flash of the camera is what creates that "pasty" effect that these guys are talking about. Don't sweat it man! I personally can't see what girls wouldn't be attracted to you.. in that first picture you look great man. You show positive confidence and give off a good vibe. Just keep your head up, smile, and keep giving off the Eye Contact.. they'll eat it up man!

Everyone has this idea that you have to look like Brad Pitt or some Abercrombie and Fitch model to be successful with girls... don't believe a word of that ****.
Well now that we've heard from Average Joe, aka typical unattractive lazy-ass wont-invest-in-himself chumpball, i suggest the OP goes back to the mouthy dude's post... at least he has a fu*king clue dude
 
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