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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I find myself wanting to do the old switcharoo

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I find myself wanting to do the old Seinfeld switcharoo

Geez, here we go again, another one of life's unexpected and exciting curve balls.:D

I assume most of you are all familiar with the story of the forty five year old woman that I've recently gotten into doing blow jobs. Well, i have been spending a fair amount of time with her the past while and inevidably have met more and more of her friends. She's got this fine forty year old friend that is friendly, out going, has a smokin ass and a pair of breats that a man could get lost in for hours. She's been a widow for almost three years.

We met about three weeks ago, get a long good, and there seems to be some sexual tension that I've done nothing to alleviate nor to increase. These two have been friends for many years and the more I see the friendly widow, the more I want to get in her pants. A totally new situation for me.

Anyone got any ideas on how to proceed keeping in mine we're not teenagers.

P.S. George Costanza need not reply.:D :D
 
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oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.
 

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Originally posted by Skel
oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.


I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
 

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Pretty tough situation.

If you simply try the switcheroo then its going to blow up in your face. These ladies friendship is most likely stronger than the bond you have with either of them.

What you may have to do is find your 45 yr old a new man. Let her dump you and then go for the friend.
 

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
oh **** lol thats funny. Didnt even see that :)

FalconEye. What do you think her intentions are? What do you think her intentions were for introducing you to her friend or was this just a social situation?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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maranathaman

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Just keep subtley flirting with the widow and let HER make a move if she's truely interested.
 
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