"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I find myself wanting to do the old switcharoo

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I find myself wanting to do the old Seinfeld switcharoo

Geez, here we go again, another one of life's unexpected and exciting curve balls.:D

I assume most of you are all familiar with the story of the forty five year old woman that I've recently gotten into doing blow jobs. Well, i have been spending a fair amount of time with her the past while and inevidably have met more and more of her friends. She's got this fine forty year old friend that is friendly, out going, has a smokin ass and a pair of breats that a man could get lost in for hours. She's been a widow for almost three years.

We met about three weeks ago, get a long good, and there seems to be some sexual tension that I've done nothing to alleviate nor to increase. These two have been friends for many years and the more I see the friendly widow, the more I want to get in her pants. A totally new situation for me.

Anyone got any ideas on how to proceed keeping in mine we're not teenagers.

P.S. George Costanza need not reply.:D :D
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.
 

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Originally posted by Skel
oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.


I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
 

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Pretty tough situation.

If you simply try the switcheroo then its going to blow up in your face. These ladies friendship is most likely stronger than the bond you have with either of them.

What you may have to do is find your 45 yr old a new man. Let her dump you and then go for the friend.
 

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
oh **** lol thats funny. Didnt even see that :)

FalconEye. What do you think her intentions are? What do you think her intentions were for introducing you to her friend or was this just a social situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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maranathaman

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Just keep subtley flirting with the widow and let HER make a move if she's truely interested.
 
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