Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I find myself wanting to do the old switcharoo

Falcon Eye

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I find myself wanting to do the old Seinfeld switcharoo

Geez, here we go again, another one of life's unexpected and exciting curve balls.:D

I assume most of you are all familiar with the story of the forty five year old woman that I've recently gotten into doing blow jobs. Well, i have been spending a fair amount of time with her the past while and inevidably have met more and more of her friends. She's got this fine forty year old friend that is friendly, out going, has a smokin ass and a pair of breats that a man could get lost in for hours. She's been a widow for almost three years.

We met about three weeks ago, get a long good, and there seems to be some sexual tension that I've done nothing to alleviate nor to increase. These two have been friends for many years and the more I see the friendly widow, the more I want to get in her pants. A totally new situation for me.

Anyone got any ideas on how to proceed keeping in mine we're not teenagers.

P.S. George Costanza need not reply.:D :D
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skel

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oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.
 

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Originally posted by Skel
oh you know what this reminds me of? A Seinfeld episode. Basically Jerry was dating some girl and he decided he wanted her roomate instead. Him and George came up with a plan for the Switcharoo. Basically he suggested (dont know spelling)manaja twa. Maybe you should do something like that :p Let us know what happens.


I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
 

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Pretty tough situation.

If you simply try the switcheroo then its going to blow up in your face. These ladies friendship is most likely stronger than the bond you have with either of them.

What you may have to do is find your 45 yr old a new man. Let her dump you and then go for the friend.
 

Skel

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
I thought I said George Costanza need not reply. :D :D
oh **** lol thats funny. Didnt even see that :)

FalconEye. What do you think her intentions are? What do you think her intentions were for introducing you to her friend or was this just a social situation?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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maranathaman

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Just keep subtley flirting with the widow and let HER make a move if she's truely interested.
 
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