"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I feel so fake and it shows

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BongDuy

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When i first meet girls, if things flow well, i can get them to laugh and pull off the ****y and funny. i even did it today when i met this lifeguard on duty. i can do this for only so long.


I noticed with some girls i've known for over a year, i dont act as " ****y and funny" but instead more AFC and i say stupid unneeded crap, negative stuff, and all the DO NOT SAY stuff.


Has anyone been through the same thing? I always try to remind myself, but i always find myself forgetting and just getting to comfortable.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr_rogers

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BongDuy said:
When i first meet girls, if things flow well, i can get them to laugh and pull off the ****y and funny. i even did it today when i met this lifeguard on duty. i can do this for only so long.


I noticed with some girls i've known for over a year, i dont act as " ****y and funny" but instead more AFC and i say stupid unneeded crap, negative stuff, and all the DO NOT SAY stuff.


Has anyone been through the same thing? I always try to remind myself, but i always find myself forgetting and just getting to comfortable.
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Yeah, it takes a while before C&F and all becomes second nature. The idea with all of the tips and tricks on this site is to incorporate them all into your personality and self. It's like how we're taught that women are attracted to confidence. You can act confident, which works, but the goal is to become a naturally confident person.
 
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I hear ya. I term it as going on auto-pilot. It happens to everyone. not just you. Just don't let it happen a lot. Be yourself. Trust your head in what to say and what not to say. Plus be confident and not let others walk over you. Hope it helps.
 
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BongDuy said:
When i first meet girls, if things flow well, i can get them to laugh and pull off the ****y and funny. i even did it today when i met this lifeguard on duty. i can do this for only so long.
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So what?

Keep it up and watch it become a part of you. Don't stress out. Its no big deal in the long run. Put in the effort and you WILL become what you want.

You can be flirty with chicks all the time. Practice and have fun with this!

I noticed with some girls i've known for over a year, i dont act as " ****y and funny" but instead more AFC and i say stupid unneeded crap, negative stuff, and all the DO NOT SAY stuff.
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WHOA. Stop right there.

Like what??

There's no need to be negative. There's something wrong. Find the problem and fix it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nobody naturally has an AFC personality......think of that AFC stuff like a filter that you have built up over the years which filters your real personality with wimpiness....and think of it as removing that filter of AFCness and wimpiness and let your real personality in its most raw form go through unfiltered
 
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