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I feel really overshadowed by a good-looking man who started at my university

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BS Corrector. Its a simple choice you make. Feels before realz is a fem thing. No offence but if this is you then the guy has work to do. Ugly people get laid everyday.


Why? Why not just socialize and be normal.
If you cant then your being creepy.

Thats not my problem and their opinion of OP is none of his business but he is making it an issue.
Sorry but you are out to lunch on this one. Would you trust your wife to be in the same room with this guy?
 

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Sorry but you are out to lunch on this one. Would you trust your wife to be in the same room with this guy?
Dude you lost your dam mind. I dont fear losing my wife bro. She goes she gets replaced.
Some of you guys been here long enough to know better but you stay in the mud like a pig rolling around in your own muck.
Refusing to see the truth right in front of your face.
You are as valuable as you think you are.
 

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Yes, I feel that very strongly when he is in the same room as I am.

One thing that makes me uncomfortable about this is that I feel like all those girls think of him as a "far superior specimen";
basically, I feel like they wouldn't hesitate one bit to sacrifice me if they had to choose which of us would remain alive, and then completely forget about me immediately and start fawning over him.
You need professional help. Go talk to somebody.
 

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Yeah, I know the feeling all to well. If you have a girldfriend, then the way she look at him or how excited she is about him just ruins the vibe. At least you are single and dont have a gf in that same room or would start getting doubts about her! Even faithful gfs tend to emotionally cheat (ie going up to hug this guy, etc...) They also have a super confidence to approach any woman and you know in these moments how real the gf is with you.
One thing that I have realised at this point is that there is no point in trying to flirt with any of the girls in my class anymore.
Pretty much all of them are flirting really hard with him, say his name to him in sultry voices, tease him, seek physical contact with him etc, and they always look really thirsty for him.
I have seen a few of the girls sit and gaze at him right before lectures like hypnotized with slightly parted lips, and briefly wet their lips with their tongue, and continued to stare.
I also noticed on one occasion before a lecture that a girl was telling him about some leggings that she had bought and was wearing that day while he was sitting down, and she asked him if she looked good in them and turned around for him, which seemed to me as a way to "entice" him.
And of course, a few girls have said both to him and to their friends that they have a crush on him.
So I believe I will focus on girls that aren't aware of him.
 

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One thing that I have realised at this point is that there is no point in trying to flirt with any of the girls in my class anymore.
Pretty much all of them are flirting really hard with him, say his name to him in sultry voices, tease him, seek physical contact with him etc, and they always look really thirsty for him.
I have seen a few of the girls sit and gaze at him right before lectures like hypnotized with slightly parted lips, and briefly wet their lips with their tongue, and continued to stare.
I also noticed on one occasion before a lecture that a girl was telling him about some leggings that she had bought and was wearing that day while he was sitting down, and she asked him if she looked good in them and turned around for him, which seemed to me as a way to "entice" him.
And of course, a few girls have said both to him and to their friends that they have a crush on him.
So I believe I will focus on girls that aren't aware of him.
But isnt that how women are like in general because of social media and. OLD. You had an experience where this was in your face in a very nasty way. However, even if you are not in the same room does not mean the root of the problem goes away. Imagine a guy or group of guys like that in OLD? This is why guys complain about no second dates. These are the types that easily get sex on the first date and no BS from women. While other guys are just used for free dinner meals. Just like how you feel in that room is why guys who get overshadowed just quit OLD. It is toxic to the mind.
 

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What are you talking about? This is about OPs issue with another guy.
You have not then. The OP is a microcosm of what is going on in society as a whole. Ita just not in your face like him.
 

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You have not then. The OP is a microcosm of what is going on in society as a whole. Ita just not in your face like him.
Ok I understand but OP should understand his own personal confidence is in his own hands. This path for him can lead to some deep depression. He is comparing himself to someone born in another family by another set of parents.
 

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I ended up finding the perfect solution for me was to go out with guys who were just super fun to be around and who were socially normal, and normal looking, basically.
Now there's a crazy idea, be normal. Surprising how often that can work.

I went out with giga chads and, as I said, all that happens is that you spend the whole night in their shadow, even if your game is 10x better
What's worse is this guy wasn't a giga chad, and really had zero game at the time. But I was really scrawny when I was young, and he was on the football team so I guess he must have had a decent physique.
 

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Stop comparing yourself to him. Focus on being the best version of YOU that you can. And that has nothing to do with him or what he is doing or not doing.
 

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Stop comparing yourself to him. Focus on being the best version of YOU that you can. And that has nothing to do with him or what he is doing or not doing.
He is not comparing himself. He is invisible to women there. The women are making that comparison. The best version is not good enough if you cant cut it.
 

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Ok I understand but OP should understand his own personal confidence is in his own hands. This path for him can lead to some deep depression. He is comparing himself to someone born in another family by another set of parents.
That is how the women, in that class, are treating him. I dont get why everybody is so thick about that. Nobody other than @characternote and myself gets this?

The only hope is some girls get burned by that dude and things start souring in that class and he gets a rape charge or something like that. Things like that usually have a way of going terrible for those guys in the end as all it takes is one crazy b1txh to ruin his life.
 

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He is not comparing himself. He is invisible to women there. The women are making that comparison. The best version is not good enough if you cant cut it.
Basd on what he believes which may or may NOT be reality. In most cases the worst case scenarios people dream up aren't reality.
 
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