"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i feel guilty guys

muzzled

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thanks to this site for teachin me some valuable stuff.

now for my problem: there is this girl i like that has a bf. stop. don't flame me yet. she told some of my female friends she has a big crush on me but she is about to move in with her bf. she is now ignoring me cuz she made plans to move in with this guy so she wants to forget me.

how can i stop this? i wanna get with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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If she's flat out ignoring you, its gonna be kinda hard to get some conversation going huh ? Maybe she knows you'll suck her in once u start djing her and she really likes her bf ? Dunno, if i was you, I would leave her be. There's plenty of HB's around, don't worry about one thats lost and confused. THey're never worth it in the end.
 

muzzled

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thanks bro
sometimes if u really like a chick you cant think straight lol

i'll let her be
 

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Emotions mess around with logic.
 

muzzled

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Yea its like i have no problem finding chicks to lay but once i really like her i turn into a weenie :(

i still wanna get with her cuz i think how serious can she be about this guy when she has a crush on someone else u know? and she dont really ignore me but kinda trying to avoid me. but i.. must... forget.. bout... her.... lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Muzzled you little b1tch

Muzzled don't take the wasy way out like these other nastys and give up! The sky is the limit and you know that you keep on just keep on pressing on. The sky is the limit and you know that you can have what you want, be what you want.

If you want this girl go find her in person and tell her this. "If you want to move in with this guy I understand, before you do I want to get with you. I have always had a crush on you and I think you are a very sexy girl and I want you."

Don't be afraid of what she might say next. Don't accept this weak sh1t! If she says no at first persist and be honest with her! "I still think your sexy and I still want to get with you, I though we could get together before you move in and I'll be on my way." Be totally honest and don't feel guilty for your desires. Your a Man. :)

Alright think about it. She's ignoring you because she had a crush on you and because she still likes you, so she has to avoid you because she's commited to someone else because if she doesn't she'll fall for you.
 

muzzled

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yea dude but do you really think its fair cuz i just wanna get with her and might be robbin her of a good bf? he is loaded btw
 
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