"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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i feel guilty guys

muzzled

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thanks to this site for teachin me some valuable stuff.

now for my problem: there is this girl i like that has a bf. stop. don't flame me yet. she told some of my female friends she has a big crush on me but she is about to move in with her bf. she is now ignoring me cuz she made plans to move in with this guy so she wants to forget me.

how can i stop this? i wanna get with her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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If she's flat out ignoring you, its gonna be kinda hard to get some conversation going huh ? Maybe she knows you'll suck her in once u start djing her and she really likes her bf ? Dunno, if i was you, I would leave her be. There's plenty of HB's around, don't worry about one thats lost and confused. THey're never worth it in the end.
 

muzzled

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thanks bro
sometimes if u really like a chick you cant think straight lol

i'll let her be
 

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Emotions mess around with logic.
 

muzzled

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Yea its like i have no problem finding chicks to lay but once i really like her i turn into a weenie :(

i still wanna get with her cuz i think how serious can she be about this guy when she has a crush on someone else u know? and she dont really ignore me but kinda trying to avoid me. but i.. must... forget.. bout... her.... lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Muzzled you little b1tch

Muzzled don't take the wasy way out like these other nastys and give up! The sky is the limit and you know that you keep on just keep on pressing on. The sky is the limit and you know that you can have what you want, be what you want.

If you want this girl go find her in person and tell her this. "If you want to move in with this guy I understand, before you do I want to get with you. I have always had a crush on you and I think you are a very sexy girl and I want you."

Don't be afraid of what she might say next. Don't accept this weak sh1t! If she says no at first persist and be honest with her! "I still think your sexy and I still want to get with you, I though we could get together before you move in and I'll be on my way." Be totally honest and don't feel guilty for your desires. Your a Man. :)

Alright think about it. She's ignoring you because she had a crush on you and because she still likes you, so she has to avoid you because she's commited to someone else because if she doesn't she'll fall for you.
 

muzzled

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yea dude but do you really think its fair cuz i just wanna get with her and might be robbin her of a good bf? he is loaded btw
 
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