"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i feel guilty guys

muzzled

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thanks to this site for teachin me some valuable stuff.

now for my problem: there is this girl i like that has a bf. stop. don't flame me yet. she told some of my female friends she has a big crush on me but she is about to move in with her bf. she is now ignoring me cuz she made plans to move in with this guy so she wants to forget me.

how can i stop this? i wanna get with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wiesman44

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If she's flat out ignoring you, its gonna be kinda hard to get some conversation going huh ? Maybe she knows you'll suck her in once u start djing her and she really likes her bf ? Dunno, if i was you, I would leave her be. There's plenty of HB's around, don't worry about one thats lost and confused. THey're never worth it in the end.
 

muzzled

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thanks bro
sometimes if u really like a chick you cant think straight lol

i'll let her be
 

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Emotions mess around with logic.
 

muzzled

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Yea its like i have no problem finding chicks to lay but once i really like her i turn into a weenie :(

i still wanna get with her cuz i think how serious can she be about this guy when she has a crush on someone else u know? and she dont really ignore me but kinda trying to avoid me. but i.. must... forget.. bout... her.... lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Muzzled you little b1tch

Muzzled don't take the wasy way out like these other nastys and give up! The sky is the limit and you know that you keep on just keep on pressing on. The sky is the limit and you know that you can have what you want, be what you want.

If you want this girl go find her in person and tell her this. "If you want to move in with this guy I understand, before you do I want to get with you. I have always had a crush on you and I think you are a very sexy girl and I want you."

Don't be afraid of what she might say next. Don't accept this weak sh1t! If she says no at first persist and be honest with her! "I still think your sexy and I still want to get with you, I though we could get together before you move in and I'll be on my way." Be totally honest and don't feel guilty for your desires. Your a Man. :)

Alright think about it. She's ignoring you because she had a crush on you and because she still likes you, so she has to avoid you because she's commited to someone else because if she doesn't she'll fall for you.
 

muzzled

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yea dude but do you really think its fair cuz i just wanna get with her and might be robbin her of a good bf? he is loaded btw
 
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