I thought you made minimum wage. You just posted about a 30k/yr job like it was a godsend.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I fatshamed my mom into oblivion
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude in my country its like upper upper tier
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What country are you from? That sounds like a very low wage where I'm from.
pooland.
minimum wage here is 2000 PLN but lot of people earn less than that (like 1200). majority is earning between 2000 to 3500 PLN monthly(but they often work more than 40h), and programmer (the job i talked about before) 5-15k monthly
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That figures. Poland should be an easy place to meet nice quality women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Chev.Chelios
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actually Poland is on the decline to girls their are also getting fat according to roosh
https://www.rooshv.com/5-reasons-why-you-should-reconsider-going-to-poland
https://www.rooshv.com/5-reasons-why-you-should-reconsider-going-to-poland
girls are on decline EVERYWHERE
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Lame..plus I thought you drove Uber.
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Exactly. Never make it personal.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Murk
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Don’t worry, OP will be getting kicked out of the basement soon with no WiFi
Yes but at least Sarah is all good right
Murk
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I wouldn’t know, I haven’t replied to her in 6 days, kurwa
You’re lucky I don’t come to Poland and smash all your blondes flashing €10 cash like a boss