I thought you made minimum wage. You just posted about a 30k/yr job like it was a godsend.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I fatshamed my mom into oblivion
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude in my country its like upper upper tier
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What country are you from? That sounds like a very low wage where I'm from.
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minimum wage here is 2000 PLN but lot of people earn less than that (like 1200). majority is earning between 2000 to 3500 PLN monthly(but they often work more than 40h), and programmer (the job i talked about before) 5-15k monthly
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That figures. Poland should be an easy place to meet nice quality women.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chev.Chelios
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actually Poland is on the decline to girls their are also getting fat according to roosh
https://www.rooshv.com/5-reasons-why-you-should-reconsider-going-to-poland
https://www.rooshv.com/5-reasons-why-you-should-reconsider-going-to-poland
girls are on decline EVERYWHERE
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Lame..plus I thought you drove Uber.
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Exactly. Never make it personal.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Murk
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Don’t worry, OP will be getting kicked out of the basement soon with no WiFi
Yes but at least Sarah is all good right
Murk
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I wouldn’t know, I haven’t replied to her in 6 days, kurwa
You’re lucky I don’t come to Poland and smash all your blondes flashing €10 cash like a boss