"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I enjoy a good old sh*t test. They are fun. Who agrees?

narcissist

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To me personally when a girl throws you a sh*t test it means she is testing your value as a man because she see you as a potential prospect. In my opinion, once you actually develop the ability to maneuver around sh*t tests with an elegant poise, they actually become a form of entertainment. I love coming up with new ways to handle a girls sh*t tests, and as such they become so much more attracted. You can actually feel the attraction they have towards get stronger and stronger every sh*t test you, for a lack of a better word "pass." (although I don't like to use this word for sh*t tests, its more like not allowing them to affect your poise).


Does anyone else feel this same way? Its a part of the game that I actually love. I know a lot of guys hate sh*t tests, and get bitter over them ("oh, why do women have to test blah blah blah). That to me is allowing the sh*t tests to rattle your frame.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When she gives you tests, it means she is interested in you. So yea, tests are a good thing. Anytime I start seeing a woman, I honestly look forward to testing because I know it's something we have to get out of the way.... it's like a game. Mauser96 is right again... patience and a bit of humor is really all you need to get though the testing
 

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I love tests. Actually proves the girl isn't a boring ho to be with.
 

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I fvckin hate **** tests. I like a chick that knows what she wants and doesnt gimme no ****, lol.
 
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