"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I enjoy a good old sh*t test. They are fun. Who agrees?

narcissist

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To me personally when a girl throws you a sh*t test it means she is testing your value as a man because she see you as a potential prospect. In my opinion, once you actually develop the ability to maneuver around sh*t tests with an elegant poise, they actually become a form of entertainment. I love coming up with new ways to handle a girls sh*t tests, and as such they become so much more attracted. You can actually feel the attraction they have towards get stronger and stronger every sh*t test you, for a lack of a better word "pass." (although I don't like to use this word for sh*t tests, its more like not allowing them to affect your poise).


Does anyone else feel this same way? Its a part of the game that I actually love. I know a lot of guys hate sh*t tests, and get bitter over them ("oh, why do women have to test blah blah blah). That to me is allowing the sh*t tests to rattle your frame.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RangerMIke

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When she gives you tests, it means she is interested in you. So yea, tests are a good thing. Anytime I start seeing a woman, I honestly look forward to testing because I know it's something we have to get out of the way.... it's like a game. Mauser96 is right again... patience and a bit of humor is really all you need to get though the testing
 

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I love tests. Actually proves the girl isn't a boring ho to be with.
 

Chamber36

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I fvckin hate **** tests. I like a chick that knows what she wants and doesnt gimme no ****, lol.
 
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