"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I enjoy a good old sh*t test. They are fun. Who agrees?

narcissist

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To me personally when a girl throws you a sh*t test it means she is testing your value as a man because she see you as a potential prospect. In my opinion, once you actually develop the ability to maneuver around sh*t tests with an elegant poise, they actually become a form of entertainment. I love coming up with new ways to handle a girls sh*t tests, and as such they become so much more attracted. You can actually feel the attraction they have towards get stronger and stronger every sh*t test you, for a lack of a better word "pass." (although I don't like to use this word for sh*t tests, its more like not allowing them to affect your poise).


Does anyone else feel this same way? Its a part of the game that I actually love. I know a lot of guys hate sh*t tests, and get bitter over them ("oh, why do women have to test blah blah blah). That to me is allowing the sh*t tests to rattle your frame.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RangerMIke

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When she gives you tests, it means she is interested in you. So yea, tests are a good thing. Anytime I start seeing a woman, I honestly look forward to testing because I know it's something we have to get out of the way.... it's like a game. Mauser96 is right again... patience and a bit of humor is really all you need to get though the testing
 

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I love tests. Actually proves the girl isn't a boring ho to be with.
 

Chamber36

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I fvckin hate **** tests. I like a chick that knows what she wants and doesnt gimme no ****, lol.
 
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