"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I DUMPED HER...

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So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Was it tonite? How recent? How does your energy feel?
 
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It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
 
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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Atta boy
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds like she was sh1t testing you because she's weighing her options.

You could pass the sh1t test, but will that make you a winner?
 
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It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
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I had a gf for three months that was using me. Always asking for help. And being resistant to doing stuff for me. So she ended up hittimg me. I said "thatll be the last time you hit me. I know you can't believe it but its done" Drove her home dropped her off and never looked back. Felt like a million bucks ten minutes later. Because before i got with her i was feeling great. She did her slow succubus thing on me. And the energy came right back when i removed her.
 
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Also, just so you know, by walking away you played your strongest hand. Gotta stand by it or get fvcked by it. If you reach out to her now, you lose.
 
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you did the right thing, good man.

There are quality women out there who will reveal themselves in the course of time. Keep respecting yourself and good things will happen. Talking about ex flings and creating drama for the sake of drama, ya, let the next chump deal with that.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Always go with gut instinct my friend
 
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Krueg said:
It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
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You did not over react. She blew you off 3 times the flips out for no reason. There is no excuse for that behaviour. None.

Even if she isnt cheating or thinking of going back to the ex or whatever, you did the right thing. You didnt reward bad behaviour. Dumping her was the best way to handle this.

Head high brother. Next
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You stuck your guns and maintained your frame as a human being. Next.
 
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Update, I feel like an idiot but lessened learned.. she basically begged me back and because at one point the sex was good and generally had fun I thought I'd give it a shot. Then she stars acting more indifferent from when I broke things off and after making a comet she says she confused thinks were better off friends lol. I said that's fine no hard feelings i appreciate your honesty I will back off
NO CONTACT for her. See what happens when your a nice guy
 
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Krueg said:
Update, I feel like an idiot but lessened learned.. she basically begged me back and because at one point the sex was good and generally had fun I thought I'd give it a shot. Then she stars acting more indifferent from when I broke things off and after making a comet she says she confused thinks were better off friends lol. I said that's fine no hard feelings i appreciate your honesty I will back off
NO CONTACT for her. See what happens when your a nice guy
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