"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I DUMPED HER...

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So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Was it tonite? How recent? How does your energy feel?
 
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It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
 
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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Atta boy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like she was sh1t testing you because she's weighing her options.

You could pass the sh1t test, but will that make you a winner?
 
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Krueg said:
It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
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I had a gf for three months that was using me. Always asking for help. And being resistant to doing stuff for me. So she ended up hittimg me. I said "thatll be the last time you hit me. I know you can't believe it but its done" Drove her home dropped her off and never looked back. Felt like a million bucks ten minutes later. Because before i got with her i was feeling great. She did her slow succubus thing on me. And the energy came right back when i removed her.
 
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Also, just so you know, by walking away you played your strongest hand. Gotta stand by it or get fvcked by it. If you reach out to her now, you lose.
 
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you did the right thing, good man.

There are quality women out there who will reveal themselves in the course of time. Keep respecting yourself and good things will happen. Talking about ex flings and creating drama for the sake of drama, ya, let the next chump deal with that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Krueg said:
So I made a thread a bit ago about a girl I was seeing who brought up a old fling or whatever. Anyways been dating for like 5 months things seemed to be going good. Now I get a funny feeling something ain't right. I can't explain it just a gut feeling that something is wrong. Cause up until that point I had no worries or doubts. Anyways she was bitching about something asked her what was wrong and she freaked out on me over nothing. Tried asking what was up and it blew up into something stupid so I just said you know what!? This isn't working out for me anymore and walked out. Now prior to my anger she blew me off the last 3 times I asked for a simple hangout and tries to turn everything around on me.
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Always go with gut instinct my friend
 
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Krueg said:
It was earlier this afternoon. Honestly I feel a little better. But kinda bummed cause of this situation. Maybe I over reacted but what the fvck ever. I dont have those bad feelings now
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You did not over react. She blew you off 3 times the flips out for no reason. There is no excuse for that behaviour. None.

Even if she isnt cheating or thinking of going back to the ex or whatever, you did the right thing. You didnt reward bad behaviour. Dumping her was the best way to handle this.

Head high brother. Next
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You stuck your guns and maintained your frame as a human being. Next.
 
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Update, I feel like an idiot but lessened learned.. she basically begged me back and because at one point the sex was good and generally had fun I thought I'd give it a shot. Then she stars acting more indifferent from when I broke things off and after making a comet she says she confused thinks were better off friends lol. I said that's fine no hard feelings i appreciate your honesty I will back off
NO CONTACT for her. See what happens when your a nice guy
 
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Krueg said:
Update, I feel like an idiot but lessened learned.. she basically begged me back and because at one point the sex was good and generally had fun I thought I'd give it a shot. Then she stars acting more indifferent from when I broke things off and after making a comet she says she confused thinks were better off friends lol. I said that's fine no hard feelings i appreciate your honesty I will back off
NO CONTACT for her. See what happens when your a nice guy
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