"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont understand... i ask girl out on date, but she says she is kinda taken?

cguy2004

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why would she say kinda taken, and not taken. am i suppose to make a move? i mean after all, i did ask her on a date...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PapiChulo

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rejection, playing hard to get, wants to see what you are gonna do.

I personally dont buy any of this "taken" bull****, so are the married chicks that cheat say.
 

War Against Betaism

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She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
 

jophil28

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War Against Betaism said:
She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
This is it ^^.

Any further attempt by you to date her is likely to fail. Her "kinda taken" statement is not a 'test' or a ploy to have you chase her or some other beta fantasy from the SS loonie fringe , it is 'womanspeek' for "No thanks ."
 
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Kinda taken - kinda pregnant - same BS.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PapiChulo

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Kinda busy- kinda not looking for anyone - kinda lesbian, he he

is she married or engaged?
 
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