"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i dont understand... i ask girl out on date, but she says she is kinda taken?

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cguy2004

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why would she say kinda taken, and not taken. am i suppose to make a move? i mean after all, i did ask her on a date...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rejection, playing hard to get, wants to see what you are gonna do.

I personally dont buy any of this "taken" bull****, so are the married chicks that cheat say.
 
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She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
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This is it ^^.

Any further attempt by you to date her is likely to fail. Her "kinda taken" statement is not a 'test' or a ploy to have you chase her or some other beta fantasy from the SS loonie fringe , it is 'womanspeek' for "No thanks ."
 
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Kinda taken - kinda pregnant - same BS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kinda busy- kinda not looking for anyone - kinda lesbian, he he

is she married or engaged?
 
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