"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i dont understand... i ask girl out on date, but she says she is kinda taken?
- Thread starter cguy2004
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
I personally dont buy any of this "taken" bull****, so are the married chicks that cheat say.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
jophil28
Master Don Juan
This is it ^^.War Against Betaism said:She's trying to reject you, but hesitated by adding "kinda" to soften the blow. I wouldn't say you have no chance, but you're fighting an uphill battle here if you do continue to pursue.
Any further attempt by you to date her is likely to fail. Her "kinda taken" statement is not a 'test' or a ploy to have you chase her or some other beta fantasy from the SS loonie fringe , it is 'womanspeek' for "No thanks ."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
is she married or engaged?